posted on Sep, 25 2011 @ 12:20 AM
Yes I punched the dash of my truck while arguing with my wife (then girlfriend). I left the big crack there to remind me of how stupid it is to loose
your temper and break things. I also got so mad while arguing with my wife that I threw my fork down so hard on the dinner plate it cracked it in
half. Also while in a "heated discussion" I threw the remote on the floor and broke it. My wife called the police that time thinking I was throwing
it at her. I talked to the officer and was deemed to not be a threat to myself or my wife, thank goodness!.
These and many other fits of anger and frustration transpired from the beginning of my wife's and my relationship (1984) until 3 years ago when I
finally admitted I had a problem with alcohol, my emotions and my emotions when under the influence of alcohol. I am 3 year sober and now HAPPILY and
gratfully STILL married to the same person. I have the respect of my wife, 2 adult children and myself and those who knew me then and know me now.
I am still every bit a "man" as I've always been. Still the guardian of my family and houshold. Can still staredown any potential and precieved
threat be it man, dog or door to door salesman. Revel in my love of cars, firearms, the female form, caffine and good food!
I fully believe if your a man BE A MAN because that's how its meant to be. that's what will keep you happy. If you need to hit something do it. BUT
dont scare or threaten those around you who don't deserve your rath. (the one(s) you love)
PS It helps to do it with a clear head and to listen with an open mind and heart to the ones you love.
PEACE TO ALL OUT THERE IN ATS LAND! and thank you for allowing me to cyberblab!!