Heartbroken... AGAIN, page 9


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reply posted on 24-9-2011 @ 09:50 AM by gabby2011
Originally posted by Petrov62
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Hey Gabby, your persistent and unwavering attitude throughout this thread, in the face of I must say some strident and even bizarre criticism from some quarters, is worthy of high praise. _javascript:icon('')
People of a certain age have to realise that, NO, it's NOT all about them, and YES, I am responsible for my actions and decisions._javascript:icon('')


Thank you ..but I really am not worthy of high praise..

I felt painted in to a corner, and hit below the belt so to speak..and I fought back, which is my usual manner of dealing with this type of behavior.

I do appreciate very much your acknowledgement that I was under some bizarre criticism , and unfair accusations, but I'm not so sure I would deal with it in the same manner, if it were to happen again.

Thank you again for posting what you did, it did make me feel better than some of you understood, and could see what had developed through conversation in this thread.


edit on 24-9-2011 by gabby2011 because: (no reason given)



reply posted on 25-9-2011 @ 04:35 AM by galadofwarthethird
reply to post by FEDec



So you admittedly suck at math and know nothing about it but are completely sure that love another thing you don't understand either is completely explainable through it? There is only one word for this: bollocks.


Yes that is what i said, and yes it is very much so possible, and yes I really don't care at all to explain that.



Let me tell you something about logic a word you seem to love. Logic is reasoning with the facts that you know to come to a conclusion. Yet here we see you assuming that love is calculable using math while knowing nothing about either love or math. You aren't even making educated guesses.

Like I said I do not care.

But here watch this vid and I will explain it to you a little.

You know its so quite in here that I can hear you think, so quite in fact that I can hear the crickets chirp.


Do you know why cricket chirp?

Here let me save some time and link to a wiki.
wiki.answers.com...


Only male crickets chirp. It's actually called 'stirdulation'. This happens when it rubs the bottom part of one of its wings on the top part of the other wing. There are 3 reasons why crickets chirp;
1) to attract females;
2) to impress the female he has already attracted;
3) to warn other males to stay away.
Also, you can tell the temperature outside by listening to how fast they chirp; the hotter it is, the faster they chirp and the colder it is, the slower.

There has been much chirping on this relationship forum and not only in this thread.

Now to a more interesting question, do you know why female crickets do not chirp?

The answer to that is....i really don't feel like telling you. But i am sure you could figure out why they don't.

And lastly do you know what crickets and humans have in common, especially when it comes to making noise?


You are assuming that everything has a value without even knowing why or how those values exist.


You cant spell assume without ass, and you cant assume on something without making an ass of yourself.

You are assuming much when you assume that i do not know why or how those values exist. How many assumptions have there been on this thread, is not this entire thread just one long chain of assumptions, from the ops first post to the last that has been posted everybody is assuming things both about the op and about everybody else on this thread. So you know what that means, everybody is an A**.



I'm sure someone else could give you a better definition of logic but I'm pretty satisfied with mine for our purposes.

I think you could of done better, but hey I get it.

Like Bruce Lee once said in a movie.

Don't think..feel. what was that? An exhibition? We need emotional content.... Try again.

I will try to be more feel'y, and less pragmatic.

But then again Yoda once said.

"Do or do not, there is no try"
edit on 25-9-2011 by galadofwarthethird because: Yoda quote




reply posted on 25-9-2011 @ 09:56 AM by gabby2011
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darn those scientists, for assuming they understand why crickets chirp...or don't chirp

edit on 25-9-2011 by gabby2011 because: (no reason given)



reply posted on 26-9-2011 @ 06:46 PM by Lighterside
Originally posted by MamaJ
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post by gabby2011



Ok....let me just put this as plain as I can.

You are totally ruining this thread and making it ALL about what YOU THINK others should do and how they should do it.

I really do not care what you think ....could care less about how my advice to HER influenced you.

I just do not care.

While I am in this thread talking to the OP about HER relationship issues.... I am more than focused on my own porch all the while trying to help a girl out instead of kicking her while she is down....ya know....kind of what you are doing. Hey...just calling a spade a spade.

To shed even more light on YOU....I have to say that while reading through your rants about the OP it does appear that you are so jealous of the fact that she may be trying to hook up. Jealousy is a very unattractive trait...but hey.... that is on YOU.

You picking on her, post after post is annoying and I am sure I am not the only one who sees this....I have no idea why you have been allowed to do it this long but I really wish you would get over it and move on.



Well freaking said MamaJ. This is where I am at in the thread thus far, and I couldn't agree more with your statement. Personally, I would pay good money to see BMM scratch this attention [snip]'s eyes out on pay per view, but that's just the chauvinist in me. (am I allowed to say that?)

Seriously Gabby, you're drawing conclusions based on a tounge in cheek remark all because it's 3 posts down? Pffft, she only made the statement because BMM knows I'm a member here on ATS (LOL, there's that chauvinistic side again! I kid I kid).

And BMM, cheers to you for having a sense of humor about your own situation. It's a good way to pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and get back to having fun again.


reply posted on 26-9-2011 @ 08:04 PM by blackmetalmist
reply to post by Lighterside



so from the looks of this , it sounds like Gabby has history with most of the people here (arguing wise)

Death_Kron, MammaJ, now you.. What the heck ???

I guess I'll be added to the list now !


reply posted on 26-9-2011 @ 08:14 PM by gabby2011
reply to post by Lighterside





I'm a narcissistic dirt bag honey, so of course my opinions make me correct!



You pretty much answered your own question...

that was pretty much along the lines of my opinion of you..

but does it really matter ?.. I'm sure you care as little about my opinion of you, as I care about your opinion of me..

now go flash your pearly whites at someone who feels the need for some dirt bag narcissistic attention.
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