Originally posted by newcovenantThere are people whose opinions seem to be etched in stone.
Even reason does not budge them and in matters where the opposing side definitely has some valid points that can not be categorically dismissed they
seem to be blinded to them and do not make accommodations for them.
There are people who appear this way who are not. There are people who have concrete ideas and decisions who come across as dismissing what you see
to be as logical because you're the one not making full sense. This happens to the brightest of us. (Me? when I'm up at 5 AM in the morning, after
not having slept, and my ADHD decides that I'm going to skip about 3 sentences that are required to set up a conclusion I'm trying to make. It's
embarrassing as hell, but ah well.)
Don't you always want to hear the opposing argument?
There's more than not wanting to be outed as wrong. Some arguments require
REAMS of defense, and in an online setting like this, there's plain not enough time in 1 lifetime to debate every single post--and there's a few
threads I'm having to do this in, and I plain don't have the time to humor anyone--even when I'm right and can enlighten them, and most certainly
in the areas that I'm wrong about that will NEVER have any importance in my life. This is where some, not all, of the comments that are so negative
when "new ideas" pop up. The ideas generally aren't that new. The news-breaking story has about 12 different stories just like it. Many of us
old grumps have "been there, done that". The only reason to stop by in such threads is there is a chance we can be wrong--and that chance is
precious. The shame is when we are right and we don't say anything we're the most useless intellectuals on the face of the planet.
I can't make a decision without hearing and considering that other side and I do not see how others can, but it goes on all the time. People
trying to force thought without allowing people to investigate, discover and think for themselves.
It's not always about not considering the
other side. It's often that the other side has been presented umpteenth times, and still hasn't found the information (data) that is required to
sway those who are against this idea. More on that later.
Also you literally don't see how others can make a decision without hearing and considering that other side because you haven't heard and considered
WHO the person is you're talking to. I'm not saying you're at fault, I'm saying that if you cannot walk in this person's shoes, you won't
understand how they came to their conclusions. Sometimes understanding each other is far more important than understanding the argument.
Interrelational skills are paramount to communal critical thinking. The problem is for those of us who are fairly decent at this skill, we can still
be wrong because there's a huge danger of reading in between the lines of what was actually said verses what we think this other person feels.
Now, I hope that made sense because I don't know if I can break that down further.
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Also, what is good to note is that this video is about making a SOLID CONCLUSION fully dressed in reality. What it is easy to assume after watching
such a small video on critical thinking is that the Open Minded person will be swayed by each and every new source that arises. That's not how this
works. We're setting aside as many of our biases/emotions/quirks as possible to try to parse pure logic through a sieve. That means that some
threshold conditions have been met to come to our conclusions. Once we have a conclusion, this should be unwavering until data that meets the
required threshold is introduced. For instance:
If A=B, and B=C, then A MUST = C. In this case, the required threshold for A=/=C is that either there's new evidence that A=/=B or that B=/=C. So
any information that is outside of A=/=B and is outside B=/=C, and sometimes A=/=C is irrelevant and will be dismissed repeatedly. Otherwise known
as someone who is fully open minded on the subject can fully dismiss a conversation as soon as it starts when it doesn't meet the criteria necessary
to motivate a change in thought. (that was the "more".)
So, yes, you strive to understand even the weakest argument, but your conviction isn't necessarily going to waver into doubt mode every 5 seconds.
you're understanding that you can be wrong, but that you're not always going to be.
Theoretical complication:
In a world that is ONLY black and white, that is populated with minds filled with colors, you wind up having to deal with only colored decisions.
Those decisions will never be fully right, but they'll be approximate. How's that for frustrating in concept?