reply to post by nusnus
an individual was draining a disabled friend of mine.
1st time i met this character he arrived unannounced. no hello or how are you? he instantly initiated
a loud tirade of negativity, body language was aggressive
relating to various experiences he had. the individual claimed he was being targeted
with psychometric weapons to keep him from revealing certain information he claimed
would blow the lid off the secrecy box relating to political and commercial interests.
upon requesting details he jumped to what he believed were other instances and examples
to back up his 1st belief. quite a fractured collection of incidents.
2nd time i met this character, see above.
3rd time i met this character, see above.
my friend was clearly worn down by this guy and
confided in me that others who had been present during an unannounced visit were also
distressed by his manner and brutal attitude. they usually left during this one sided
conversation stating later they were mentally exhausted.
on the third occasion i decided to bring it to it's lowest common denominator.
i focused on his status. married with kids. he said he was prepared to die for what he
claimed was a cover up. i asked him if he had considered the potential danger he could
be putting his family in. his answer shocked me and the other two guys present. he said he would
pull out all the stops to uncover what he claimed was a conspiracy against him to silence his
belief. i asked him again, did he consider the danger he may be exposing his family to. same
answer came back. i asked if he cared for his family enough to shut up. his answer, in a more
hostile and louder attitude was that he would do anything to expose this conspiracy.
i informed him he was out of order and the best course of action would be to keep his mouth
shut and concentrate on keeping his family safe. we were both stood by this time approx 1 metre
apart and i sensed he was about to attack me. i eyeballed him as he wieghed me up and threw a
mind bullet his way just so he knew i was ready for him. he knew i was ready and backed off.
i again stated he was out of order and needed to think of others before himself. he walked out.
further reports of this guy have come back to me and now i am targeted and part of his conspiracy.
it is of no concern what he thinks about me. furthermore, the unannounced visits have ceased much
to the relief of my friend. with characters like these a constant state of vigilance is required.
i later found out this guy used to beat up his first wife on a regular basis. when his brother in law
got wind of it, payback came a calling.
during a conversation with said friend, i informed him that this guy does need him to offload onto.
i stressed that he should nail some rules down on the guy and anyone else wanting a soap box.
if he can live with that,fair enough. if not, show him the door.
repetition is a dead giveaway. refusal to take advice is another.
as neil peart wrote in the camera eye, 'one must put up barriers to keep oneself intact'.
take care with individuals like the above. they have all the time in the world to assert
their inflexible beliefs on others. the question is, do you have all the time in the world
to listen to the same broken record after all advice given is ignored?