I appreciated your post galaofwarthethird , and lots of wisdom in it for me..as well common sense.
Partygirl was just trying to help in her own way, I liked the vid. It was cute, and it made about as good a point as anything that was said in this whole thread. I am pretty sure she is the first of two people on this whole thread that does not have any personal experience with such a thing. But what! does that mean she does not get to have an opinion on it? I think not.
Yes she can have her opinion.. but we were sorting out a few things..on this thread..and it seemed to imply that she was above that type of behavior..and we should all grow up..and be mature..how she is..and really she was adding fuel to a fire , that she was claiming to be above playing with.
Because somebody else doesn't agree with my opinion..is fine..and I and some others were working that out..on this thread...wading through all the bs of assumptions and innuendos.
Then she comes in with the attitude of how mature she is,and how she left all that kind of bickering back in high school....when in fact she was behaving worse by jumping into something that had nothing to do with her...and scolding us for it... like she was above it all....followed with what I perceived as an insincere I love you.)
K..I'm getting pissed just thinking about it again....so I better let it drop...and she probably didn't mean it to offend as much, as I took offence by it.
But if you really want to blast somebody about insinuating and causing much havoc about females on this site even this thread then I think I would fit that bill. Oh yes I have caused some troubles here and there on all kinds of different threads, but fear not gabby2011 its all just words. And they don't mean anything unless they mean anything to the person reading it. And sometimes its good to exercise issues in such wayward ways.
I agree..as sort of therapy....and I'm sure many here have experienced things that do make them see things in a certain perspective....with good reason.
I'm glad to read I am not the only one who seems to cause trouble in threads..(chuckles)..and in the end you're correct..they are just words....but I need to choose them wisely..if want I want them to work in an effective manner.
I don't feel good about offending people in the end of it all....but in the heat of the moment..at times..my sensitivity chip is working with a burnt fuse..