As someone of you may already know, I've recently split up with my long term girlfriend of 4, almost 5 years and expectedly I'm a little down about
I'm not going to go into the full details on here but let's just say she decided to leave me at the worst possible time you could imagine, a time
where I was already struggling with other serious problems, in all fairness the timing couldn't have been worse for me.
Now, I've had it explained that she probably used the the other issues I was dealing with as a platform to finally summon the courage to say enough is
enough, I agree with this as I was already aware of problems in our relationship and it was quite clear to me on some subconscious level that she
wasn't happy with the way things were going.
What I'd like to ask or more to the point elaborate on is why are females like this? Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to tar all females with the
same bush but this isn't the first time I've been treated in this manner and I unfortunately don't think it will be the last.
To cut a long
story short, I've had issues in the past that I will happily agree would in all fairness make me a difficult person to live with.
However, I have always provided for the girl, always had her best interests at heart and have asked the question a thousand times, "What's
Being hit with the inevitable "Nothing"
and struggling in vain to think of another method around her stubbornness, I simply gave up. There's
only so much someone can take and I had basically had enough, although this is where the story becomes interesting.
At that point we had a major argument and ironed out our differences, she once again promised if there was ever a problem she would tell me
and that she did in fact love me, no matter what.
Now repeat the above probably 6 or 7 times, which leads us to the events of last week. Like I said I'm not going to mention them here but they were
unrelated to her but caused me significant pain and worry...
Then in the days following she was her usual moody self and I explained that I couldn't deal with her behaviour considering what I'd been through and
that I was going to the pub, once at the boozer I receive a phone call from the good lady telling me we need to talk.
Cut a longer story short, this is where she quite candidly informs me that we aren't getting on
and although she still cares doesn't want to be
with me any longer.
question is why if she was so unhappy
did she let the cycle continue for as long as it did? Why
didn't she just make her thoughts/opinions known when I first pursued the issue?
In my opinion it's because she knew she was better off her with me than simply going back and living with her parents, DAMN TWISTED FEMALES
P.S. Once again I'll add that I by no means believe all females to be of this nature and in fact some of the lovely members on this
board have given me tons of advice the past week, so don't take offence nice ladies, I just needed to vent in a written format.
on 10/9/11 by Death_Kron because: (no reason given)
edit on 10/9/11 by Death_Kron because: (no reason given)