posted on Sep, 3 2011 @ 12:44 AM
38y/o here.
If you truly love her, you will never forget her...but you WILL get over her.
The best thing to do is what NOT to do.
Dont call her, dont check her facebook/google+/myspace...NONE OF IT EVER.
Delete her number out of your phone. Not to forget it, but just not to see it.
Work as much as you can and go out with your friends as often as you can.
Dont be alone.
Avoid her. If you see her out...leave. Pay no attention to her, who she is with or what she is doing.
The first couple weeks are the hardest.
Im not sure about how religious you are, but often times sex can help you get over an ex.
Sounds weird, but the feeling of being wanted and desired by someone else builds your confidence tremendously. Especially after a breakup with a loved
person. Confidence is shot.
Dont run out and date anyone though. Wait a few weeks to get used to her NOT being there before dating.
When you feel ready...date. Date alot. And spend time with friends. Whether it be playing video games, going to the bar, movie, gatherings,
camping....whatever it is that you and your pals do. Stay busy.
It will take time....but dont ever think that there is no one else out there.
One day I'll wake up and it wont hurt anymore. ~Maroon 5