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Originally posted by zarp3333
Are Husbands are appreciated by their wives less today than they were 30 - 40 years ago.
Originally posted by zarp3333
Sometimes I feel like if my paycheck would arrive in the checking account and there was a security system on the house, nobody would notice if moved.
Originally posted by zarp3333
The latest arrow that was slung at me came in the form of a New York Times bestseller, "The Female Brain" by Louann Brezendine.
Originally posted by zarp3333
I can hardly find an example of an intelligent father on any program that my teenage children watch.
Originally posted by zarp3333
Expecting children to be moderately considerate certainly leads to resentments as do requests to pitch in with tasks that cannot be accomplished on line.
Originally posted by zarp3333
Children seem to have a greater sense of entitlement for material possessions such as cell phones, Ipods, laptops, xboxes and rituals such as sweet sixteen parties or dinners at themed restaurants.
Afterwards the pleasure seems to be short-lived. Possesions that were lobbied for as absolute necessities are often misplaced, broken, lost or forgotten
Originally posted by zarp3333
There is a constant level of tension over what's to be expected of the kids.
Originally posted by zarp3333
Help me out here. Am I simply suffering from the age old perception that "kids these days are lazy, unwilling to work hard and take everything for granted" or have things really changed?
Originally posted by zarp3333
Do other men feel like their most important contribution to the family was a source of viable sperm with a delivery method that cost less than invitro fertilization?
It's not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled, or when the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena; whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions and spends himself in a worth cause; who at the best, knows in the end the triumph of high achievement; and who at the worst if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory or defeat. Theodore Roosevelt
A father typically works 40 or more hours per week to provide for his family.
Originally posted by nightbringr
I do not want a mindless automaton slaving away at home, cooking my meals and having my children, never with a word of complaint.
Originally posted by zarp3333
Are Husbands are appreciated by their wives less today than they were 30 - 40 years ago.
My take away was that from eight weeks into the development of a fetus, female brains are superior in that testosterone shrinks the communication and hearing centers in men while doubling the size of our sexual processing center.
Originally posted by filosophia
"testosterone shrinks the communication and hearing centers" yeah, right, this sounds like a theory the women on The View might have in order to explain why their husbands never listen to them (I can just hear them saying "You know what I'm talking about girlfriends") when the real reason is probably because the men are just bored.
Originally posted by SirClem
I can relate. But, occasionally you have to actually "step out" to get some respect. I don't mean fool around. Maybe give the old lady a reason to think you might be. Have some lady friends that you knit with.
As for the kids, make them work. If the old lady gets in the way, give her something to do because she has too much time on her hands. But make the kids work, otherwise they will be totally worthless and bumming off of you until the bury you in a cheap casket.
Make the wife and kids miss you before you die.
- learn to cook. And when you cook, clean your dishes as you go. If you can cook good food, and don't mind washing some dishes to reduce the mess, it reduces a womans stress considerably. Less stress = happy home.
Originally posted by Aeons
I'm not sure why anyone would model the behaviour of fictional parents, unless they have fictional children?edit on 2011/8/31 by Aeons because: (no reason given)