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Originally posted by gypsychology909
I appreciate the message behind the original post and suggest that it does work.
Other things one might try:
Eat well, dont poison yourself .
Get your hands on as many anti-depressant medication as you can and bury them in a hole 6 feet deep where they belong.
Think about and do happy, kind things ( this will help shake any dark things that have latched on to you and are the cause of your predicament)
Dont yell, scream or swear ( its their dinner bell)
Understand that being different is a good thing and this life is only a beginning if you don't sell out and become one of them.
Remember that 5 yr olds can be found rummaging through city garbage dumps in Brazil for survival.
I still cant shake the feeling of how lucky I am when I first saw that famous yet horrible picture of a vulture , sitting there waiting behind a very frail dying African child, all alone in the desert.
Still feeling depressed?
A short intense beating with a broom dipped in excrement would fix that at this point, but that is only my crazy opinion.
Originally posted by Snoopy1978
I have had this cloud over my head ever since I was a child, as far back as I can remember. Tried your method and it did not work. The only thing that elevates my mood is the rush after working out and that doesn't last that long anyhow. Been on the antidepressant roller coaster and they suck. Generics are poison by the way.
Apologies for the mini rant. Depression is real and some people just can't magically snap out of it out of sheer will, sadly. I wish that was not the case and all humans were chemically balanced perfectly. Saying that chronic depression is not due to a chemical imbalance is like me telling a cancer patient to just walk it off, the pain can't be thaaat bad. Absurd.
Originally posted by tpg65
We all feel times of sadness , depressed & the lack of motivation , even times of despair , it is completely natural.
Now, what if I was to say to you that with the use of just a little imagination , you need never feel that way again ???
Want to give it a try ?
Ok, here goes .
I want you to imagine that yesterday you were 80 years old . You knew death was imminent . You couldn't move , you could hardly breathe.
You will never again feel the wind on your face , or hear the sound of laughter . Intimacey is long behind you .
You will never again walk barefoot along a sandy beach or feel the grass under your feet.
All you can think of in your dying moments is how dearly you would love to go back and do it all again .
Now take a minute or two to imagine yourself in that situation.......
Now suddenly here you are ....Your wish came true . You are young again . you have been given a second chance ...
Are you going to waste it ????
Originally posted by tpg65
It's that simple . If you don't believe me , try it for yourself .....It works .
All I ask is that you pass this on to whoever you feel might need it .
This may not work for people with Severe clinical depression ....But you are welcome to try it
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Originally posted by rigel4
If only it was that simple.
I have been taking between 10 and 20 mlgs
of escitalopram for the last 11 years. I really really wish i could stop.
I just feel numb most of the time , mostly emotionless, and my head feels
filled with cotton wool.
I try to stop sometimes but it just ends in withdrawal symptoms ,which i cannot cope with.
Wish i had never taken the bloody things
Rant
Originally posted by BlackSatinDancer
Originally posted by rigel4
If only it was that simple.
I have been taking between 10 and 20 mlgs
of escitalopram for the last 11 years. I really really wish i could stop.
I just feel numb most of the time , mostly emotionless, and my head feels
filled with cotton wool.
I try to stop sometimes but it just ends in withdrawal symptoms ,which i cannot cope with.
Wish i had never taken the bloody things
Rant
that is terrible. I recently had to ween myself down from an SSRI that needs no prescription. I can't mention it though because my posts are being watched and all... but anyway, I felt the need to take it because things have been so rollercoastery and i could not afford to stay upset for very long if something makes me mad because it flares up my sinuses and screws with my blood pressure and appetite and yadda yadda, but people had been doing such a good job being upsetting... I broke down and took something one night and had an interesting experience.
The next few times I took it, it was recreational but only because it had that positive effect... then I was taking some every day until they started making my skin itchy and I started only taking it on the weekends, now only when somebody pisses me off real good.
that's mild to what doctors are penning out... that was maybe one bad month because of pills that you would never think you could even get hooked on, but surprisingly...yes! It's not very bad though because it's very obvious what is happening. That particular thing gets dumb real quick. Fancier meds have more insidious effects because there is such an interest in eliminating or at least hiding side effects to allow long term use. You have no idea until it has you by the balls unless you are lucky enough to quickly start reacting to it.
i feel for you, but right now i am not in much of a position of control about certain dynamics which are difficult and unusual in my life so I have to deal with that and there are emotional consequences and much venting... and the venting will continue.... and perhaps even get louder or more severe.
I'd hate for things to get so dicey and deranged that I wind up pulling a knife on myself because scar cream is expensive.
When it's time for something to fold though... and you know it, it's time for something to fold.
if I was a little bigger perhaps it would be a table over someone head or something but in the mean time, I basically have to internalize a slew of problems that transpire because of this crazy world we live in that rarely serves up any respect or consideration for anyone who cares.
I might go cold turkey though, because they don't get tired and that knife fight might be entertaining.
Scissors can only do so much damage.
Originally posted by tpg65
Intimacey is long behind you.
Originally posted by petrus4
Originally posted by tpg65
Intimacey is long behind you.
At the age of 34, I already have that now. I have a genetic predisposition towards sexual deviancy. My father was a serial adulterer, a paternal uncle is a convicted paedophile, and my youngest brother is serially monogamous. I have also had severe misogynistic indoctrination from my father, and have reason to believe that there would be a genuine risk of my being physically abusive with another female partner.
In order to protect women, I have resolved to spend the rest of my life alone, in relationship terms. It will not be easy; it has not been easy already...but I accept it. I will not allow myself to seriously harm another person, and there is a real risk of me doing that, if I enter another relationship.
Originally posted by hadriana
That doesn't really work for me.
I'm not depressed but I'm sorta looking forward to dying. I think it will be better than being young again.
What works for me is getting up and doing SOMETHING. Anything. If I am not motivated, I simply have to forget I am not motivated and do something.
Originally posted by Jim Scott
Simply put, the basis for depression is fear. Remove that fear, then the depression leaves.
Attitude is everything. If you allow yourself to begin a slide into depression, you will get deeper.
If you are at the beginning stages, consider love. Love others, find love for your life, and find the love of God.
Perfect love casteth out fear. Find perfect love, relieve your fear, and find the peace you deserve to make a happier life for yourself.
Chemical treatments will treat the symptoms, but the underlying causes will remain and fester.
Reach outside your box. Volunteer. Help your community. Your depression will leave when you get a life.