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reply to post by Rockpuck
No .. being a man is doing what ever it is that you enjoy regardless of opinion. For instance, I don't care what you think being a "man" is. For me its sitting with my friends drinking, or some it's fishing (i hate fishing), or hunting, or basketball leagues etc.. The emasculated man has no hobby to call his own, few male friends, no designated time to spend alone doing the things he enjoys. I know many like that, and it's a sad thing.
Originally posted by Rockpuck
reply to post by gabby2011
Sorry, but nearly every study proves you wrong. It's been shown countless times that men NEED, in a biological way, male companionship away from the wife on a regular basis (even once a month).
www.lovepanky.com...
www.helpformen.com...
www.sacred-texts.com...
women are the same way.. happy women need friends. I know you seem to have this huge blocking of friendship in your mind here.. but believe it or not a man (or woman for that matter) can be an attentive partner, excellent parent and supportive of the houshold and still have friends that they meet with on a regular basis! It's also been shown that lack of friends for either sex leads to tensions in relationships because of pent of anger and frustration and having no one to talk or relate to.
Surely if you were my wife I'd desperately need to get away....
Originally posted by Wyn Hawks
Originally posted by klarkowski67
Real men simply have a penis. Women don't. Everything else is a choice.
...what about men who have lost their penis or have had it rendered useless due to battle injuries or cancer?... are they not real men anymore?... imo, they still are cuz theres a lot more to a man than just his genitals...
Originally posted by Sphota
culture dictates what we think is manly and what isn't.
Originally posted by Sphota
Panty hose are not manly, but they were in the 1600s.
Originally posted by Sphota
If you live in the contemporary US, long, luscious locks of hair are seen as feminine, unless you are a skater, or a handful of wrestlers, or are back in the 70s, or in an 80s hairband.
Originally posted by Sphota
When we talk about feminism killing masculinity, it's really a knee-jerk reaction to a paradigm shift. The culture shifted. I don't think it will result in single gender, I just think that it will end up recalibrating roles at the end of the shift.
Originally posted by Sphota
reply to post by Wyn Hawks
What are ndn men?
Originally posted by Sphota
As far as culture dictating things, I don't know how many examples I can give in one post.
Originally posted by Sphota
Culture dictates what is manly and what isn't.
Originally posted by Wyn Hawks
Originally posted by Sphota
reply to post by Wyn Hawks
What are ndn men?
...ndn is shorthand for indigenous (as in american indian) thats been heavily used on all kinds of message boards for more than two decades...
Originally posted by Sphota
As far as culture dictating things, I don't know how many examples I can give in one post.
...who asked you to give examples?... no one...
Originally posted by Sphota
Culture dictates what is manly and what isn't.
...like i said before - you may let culture dictate your concepts but not everyone does...
Originally posted by Wyn Hawks
Originally posted by Sphota
reply to post by Wyn Hawks
What are ndn men?
...ndn is shorthand for indigenous (as in american indian) thats been heavily used on all kinds of message boards for more than two decades...
Originally posted by Sphota
As far as culture dictating things, I don't know how many examples I can give in one post.
...who asked you to give examples?... no one...
Originally posted by Sphota
Culture dictates what is manly and what isn't.
...like i said before - you may let culture dictate your concepts but not everyone does...
Originally posted by Dionisius
Wow, why so uptight? I actually really Enjoyed reading her post and found it to be enlightening. I for one am glad she did give examples, She could have given a few more in my opinion as this is what this thread is all about.
Whats with the nitpicking? If you disagree you could try a counter argument (although i dont see that there really is one), but that was just plain and simple immaturity on your behalf. I have read some of your posts on different threads and was quite intrigued as to what you had to say, so if you cant respond to a post in a mature manner i suggest you stop contaminating my thread with the usual ATS ignorance.
I find that Culture does actually dictate all of our concepts and morals and is pre-conditioned into us from a very early age, unless of course your parents decide that they do not wish to instill particular ideals and concepts from their culture into their children. So therefore break away from society and teach them seperate concepts, which can be very enlightening to that child, but depending on the parents, yet again, can be distressing if the child wishes to be part of a society, or culture when they are old enough to make their own choices.
Originally posted by Dionisius
Wow, why so uptight? I actually really Enjoyed reading her post and found it to be enlightening. I for one am glad she did give examples, She could have given a few more in my opinion as this is what this thread is all about.
...who asked you to give examples?... no one...
Originally posted by Dionisius
Whats with the nitpicking? If you disagree you could try a counter argument (although i dont see that there really is one),
Originally posted by Dionisius
but that was just plain and simple immaturity on your behalf.
Originally posted by Wyn Hawks
Originally posted by Dionisius
Wow, why so uptight? I actually really Enjoyed reading her post and found it to be enlightening. I for one am glad she did give examples, She could have given a few more in my opinion as this is what this thread is all about.
...but thats YOU, dear...
...had sphota directed their posts to no one in particular, i wouldnt have responded at all but that wasnt the case... sphota directed two posts to me and they were presumptious, imo - hence my blunt response reposted below for your convenience...
Originally posted by Sphota
Originally posted by Wyn Hawks
Originally posted by klarkowski67
Real men simply have a penis. Women don't. Everything else is a choice.
...what about men who have lost their penis or have had it rendered useless due to battle injuries or cancer?... are they not real men anymore?... imo, they still are cuz theres a lot more to a man than just his genitals...
I don't think he meant it like that. He was going for the purely biological aspect.
This is true, culture dictates what we think is manly and what isn't.
Panty hose are not manly, but they were in the 1600s.