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Originally posted by MamaJ
reply to post by Skorpiogurl
Thank you for your reply and it means a lot....hope you are having a good morning so far. ;-)
I have to say...."Kim" is younger but I really look up to her. She stayed so many years for her vows. She is a very spiritual woman and has had a hard time wrestling for better or for worse bit.
This was the only time I can say I have "rescued" her. She was doing so good for a year and was sucked back in...vulnerable and no where to go he was the saviour so to speak for those two weeks his mom put them up and bought her a cheap car.
I do understand what you are saying and I too do not want to be an enabler. She is a really good mom and is not a drug user..or addict. Her mom is a little twisted and I am at the point with her (the mom) where I will not and refuse to help her anymore. She has taught her children its ok to be in an abusive relationship. Its not ok with me and its not ok with her children.
Also, this was the first time their relationship went physical. My heart the night before was aching scared for her and when I went to her the next morning and she told me it had gotten physical I knew why I was hurting the night before...ya know.
Thank you again for your comment. It is much appreciated. I think next time ....well ....its just so hard to say what I would do if there was a next time to go to a friend and help.... when my heart feels something so strongly like I did the night before I went to Kim. It hurt so bad....its like I could feel her pain.
Originally posted by MamaJ
reply to post by newcovenant
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My children need me more than anyone.
reply to post by Htrowklis82
I am trying to learn how to be a good friend without having my emotional energy drained or putting myself in harms way!
Originally posted by DOADOA
you have done absolutely nothing to help your friend. you're a very deceitful person who is manipulating the situation on the sideline to savor the drama as it unfold. god bless your friend but may he have mercy on your soul, satan will not.
Originally posted by DOADOA
you have done absolutely nothing to help your friend. you're a very deceitful person who is manipulating the situation on the sideline to savor the drama as it unfold. god bless your friend but may he have mercy on your soul, satan will not.
Originally posted by MamaJ
reply to post by Skorpiogurl
Hahahaha....That was too funny. I think Satans message was delivered. FOR SURE. My heart sank when I read I was manipulating and deceiving her....but there has to be trolls around to make it interesting I guess.
Thats cool you were once in a band. My son plays the trombone and has gotten bored with it so he is ALL ABOUT the guitar now. He plays day and night since he picked my acoustic up the other night. I have taken him to two guitar lessons and he is also teaching himself. He is frankly eat up with it. Music is good for the soul!! Love it.
Originally posted by DOADOA
you have done absolutely nothing to help your friend. you're a very deceitful person who is manipulating the situation on the sideline to savor the drama as it unfold. god bless your friend but may he have mercy on your soul, satan will not.
Originally posted by Skorpiogurl
Originally posted by DOADOA
you have done absolutely nothing to help your friend. you're a very deceitful person who is manipulating the situation on the sideline to savor the drama as it unfold. god bless your friend but may he have mercy on your soul, satan will not.
Wow... really?
"Savor the Drama" That would be a good name for a band. Personally, if I were (still) in a band we'd be called "Embrace the Horror"
BTW - did you speak with Satan this morning? Did he ask you to relay that message?