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Originally posted by subject x
the idea of forming a larger family base, primarily for the purpose of providing a more stable base to raise children with (from?), This is, after all, the major purpose of any kind of marriage, isn't it?
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Yes, I know most of y'all are looking straight to the bedroom, but this isn't about that. Let's keep our minds out the gutter if we can. For now, anyway.
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We're all aware that there is an issue with child raising these days. There are a plethora of reasons for this, but many, I think, can be summed up under the heading of "not enough parents".
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In today's world, most families (that I know, anyway) need both parent's income to support their family, and still just scrape by. This leaves lots of under-supervised kids, not getting the attention required to raise them properly. There are plenty of other causes, too, such as irresponsible parents, substance abuse issues, and what not, but more parents would help with a lot of these, too.
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I can see less spouse abuse happening when there are others there to keep things below that level.
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As far as the term "marriage", I don't care if you call it a mariage, or a family contract, or anything else. Just so the family unit gets to legally enjoy the benefits, and share in the responsibility.
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There are issues that would have to be worked out between members of any particular family, such as bedroom issues, adding new wives/husbands, etc., but, as I said, these would be worked out individually. It depends on the people, and these issues would need to be discussed before entering into the marriage contract.
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Property issues would be something else to cosider. Who owns what, who gets what if they leave the family, things like that would need to be worked out ahead of time. If property was owned by the family, it would stay in the family, so there would always be a home to raise the kids in.
Originally posted by subject x
I think people in general have enough love in them to share it with more than one spouse at a time,
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and more love is always good, right?
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Who knows, we might even end up with generations of better behaved, better prepared kids who would, in turn, be better behaved, better prepared adults.