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Originally posted by Angelaisaac
reply to post by MasterGemini
The reason it appears to you that those who disagree with your views only focus on the "physical" pain associated with sex is because the emotional/psychological damage from acting on ones desires would only exist if they have been repressed. If people didn't punish teenagers for realizing they have sexual desires, they would be able to develop in a healthy manner. When a developing sexual being is made to feel like those desires are BAD, that person feels BAD about them self. ESPECIALLY if they decide to ever act on such strong desires. This guilt about sexual desire doesn't just go away.
In short, it doesn't hurt children to learn about sex as an act of nature. To teach them it's a perverse or bad thing is what hurts them.
Emotions do not have to play into sex - especially when you are just learning the ropes.
Originally posted by chrissiel123
Originally posted by Angelaisaac
reply to post by MasterGemini
The reason it appears to you that those who disagree with your views only focus on the "physical" pain associated with sex is because the emotional/psychological damage from acting on ones desires would only exist if they have been repressed. If people didn't punish teenagers for realizing they have sexual desires, they would be able to develop in a healthy manner. When a developing sexual being is made to feel like those desires are BAD, that person feels BAD about them self. ESPECIALLY if they decide to ever act on such strong desires. This guilt about sexual desire doesn't just go away.
In short, it doesn't hurt children to learn about sex as an act of nature. To teach them it's a perverse or bad thing is what hurts them.
no one here is claiming that children should be taught sex is perverse or bad. no one here has said that at all - CHILDREN, however have little business meddling in sex. It is an act that has emotional and physical consequences, and children need to be taught that they are to refrain until they are old enough to accept said consequences. Boys need to be taught to vaue a girl's decisions, and girls need to be taught to be patient and wait until they are mature. And it does not hurt children of a certain maturity level to learn of the physical act of sex as being something normal that ADULTS do, but it needs to be age appropriate.
pamphlets to abstain.. that stuff is so bad for our youth
Originally posted by Stormdancer777
reply to post by Salamandy
Emotions do not have to play into sex - especially when you are just learning the ropes.
It would be pretty hard for me to have sex with someone I didn't feel something for, don't they have blow up dolls for that?
Women are not just a piece of meat.
Youre doing it wrong.
See you cant accept some people like sex just because its fun can you?
Originally posted by Salamandy
Originally posted by Stormdancer777
reply to post by Salamandy
Emotions do not have to play into sex - especially when you are just learning the ropes.
It would be pretty hard for me to have sex with someone I didn't feel something for, don't they have blow up dolls for that?
Women are not just a piece of meat.
Having an orgasm is not feeling something? Youre doing it wrong...
And who compared a woman to a piece of meat? What about the man and his likeness to a dead side of beef? See you cant accept some people like sex just because its fun can you? You have to vilify it.
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Originally posted by Stormdancer777
reply to post by Salamandy
Youre doing it wrong.
LMAO
See you cant accept some people like sex just because its fun can you?
Thats cool as long as you dont go making laws about it
Oh I think sex is fun, just not with strangers.
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If your children are interested in sex or in members of the opposite sex or members of the same sex, they do not need you to coach them. If they are ready for an erotic relationship, they will pursue it on their own. Unless, of course, you have so thoroughly indoctrinated them with the lie that sex is only for people who reach a certain age that I and I alone define that they are too ashamed to act on their natural desire.
If i had a son I would warmly encourage him to have an interest in girls - a healthy interest that was age appropriate of course.
According to Freudian psychology, this complex often develops when the sufferer is raised by a cold and distant mother. Such a man will often court someone with qualities of his mother, hoping to fulfill a need for intimacy unmet in childhood. Often, the wife begins to be seen as mother to the husband—a "Madonna" figure—and thus not a possible object of sexual attraction. For this reason, in the mind of the sufferer, love and sex cannot be mixed. The man is therefore reluctant to have sexual relations with his wife for, according to his unconscious mind, this would be incest. He will reserve sexuality for "bad" or "dirty" women, and will not develop "normal" feelings of love in these sexual relationships. This introduces a dilemma where a man may feel unable to love any woman who can satisfy him sexually and is unable to be sexually satisfied by any woman whom he can love.
That is good sex. Try having some.
Finding total bliss and happiness in a moment shared with a person whom you love, caring not for anything of the physical world, just to prolong the moment of connecting on a spiritual, now that in cosmic.
Sex is often disappointing, never feels as good as we have to make it look like, never leaves a woman feeling like a better person than before she did it.