Are You Afraid of Death?, page 1
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reply posted on 19-7-2011 @ 02:25 AM by {davinci}
reply to post by athenegoddess



The only absolute in life is that it ends. A person might as well fear sunrise/set for all the good it will do them.

Depending on your religious/philisophical views death may be an improvement or, at the very least, the beginning of another stage.

A quick scan of headlines makes me more afraid of living then dying in all honesty. At least with death I don't have to worry about some politician stealing/squandering my SS money or the bank wiping out my life savings because they felt like it.




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Exactly.

Life is what it is, good or bad, rain or shine I'm enjoyng the experience and the buildup of knowledge. However, I'm really very curious to see what happens when it's all over.

At our core we are self aware energy patterns...like ice melting into water and then boiling off to steam, this should not be it.
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reply posted on 19-7-2011 @ 02:33 AM by Schkeptick
Please pardon me for bringing religion into it. I'll explain why religion is wrong in a few paragraphs.

My fear of death faded after I gave up Christianity. (I still believe in God.)

That religion has deeply affected western thinking, because it promotes the idea that what happens after death is all-important. It makes that a huge focus, a huge worry.

Islam does the same - it's all about the afterlife.

What I love about Judaism, the original faith of Abraham (which has nothing to do with Israel and politics and all that), is that it gives no answer for what comes next. It says that what you do RIGHT NOW and TODAY matter more than anything else.

It matters how you treat people. It matters how you spend your time. It matters what you choose to think about and concentrate on. It matters where you work, and how well you do your job. It matters to YOUR life and it matters to every person who comes into contact with you.

It matters profoundly that you live each and every day the very best you can. Whether in a simple or a grand way, though I think the simple things matter the most.

The failings of other-worldy religions are that they say, "as long as you follow this prescription for the after-life and earn that, nothing else matters".

This idea has led to the crumbling of western societies. It has led to extreme selfishness and self-absorption. It's a poison for the individual and societies at large. In the east it has led to the idea that dying for ideology is somehow good (suicide bombings). It is not good - it's just a wasted life.

When I put all of that away and began to concentrate on living each day the best way I know how, and leaving the afterlife as God's concern, as something that doesn't apply to me here & now, death stopped being scary. It's something that will happen to me, and I don't know if I will simply be no more, or if I will have an afterlife. I find that comforting, to know I'm not trying to earn it, that I'm simply trying to live as God told me to.

My life is very full. I'm enjoying it so much. I pray often that I will live long enough that my death is not a tragedy, but not so long that I am a burden to anyone else. If that prayer is answered, I will be very blessed. Even if it was not true and today was my last day here - I have had a good husband, smart and healthy children, a life of great experiences and adventure. I hope to see my children grow up, but beyond that, I've already been blessed beyond imagination with a good life.
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reply posted on 19-7-2011 @ 02:40 AM by mileysubet
Originally posted by Bixxi3
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post by athenegoddess



Personally i can't wait for death.
2nd


Then why are you still posting here?


reply posted on 19-7-2011 @ 02:50 AM by Diogeneser
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I do not fear death in itself. Even if it is a transition into nothingness which would be peace. Of course I would not realize the peacefulness of it because I would have no conscientiousness. What I fear is the loss of thought that this would entail. I enjoy thinking. Thought can take me anywhere I want to go. I think the Moody Blues said it best. "Thinking is the best way to travel". I know nothing of my existence before I was born and that probably means that I will know nothing of my existence after I die. When I was a young man I used the phrase "If I die I...........". Somewhere in time it changed to "When I die I...........". I do not remember when this change occurred but looking back on it was probably when I realized, unconsciously, that death was inevitable. There is some peace of mind in the fact that I am not the first to experience it. At times the peace that nothingness would bring seems inviting because of the trials and tribulations that one has to endure in this life's journey but then again these same trials are part of life and have made me more aware as a human being. I think life in general is a struggle for everyone in some way, shape or form and there must be a reason for that. I feel this life may be one of the stepping stones of existence that eventually brings us to a place of peace. That is my hope anyway.

Later


reply posted on 19-7-2011 @ 02:57 AM by XXXN3O
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I wrote a thread on this subject a few months ago and it was dead when it came to replies

I actually believe that it is not death that scares us, I think it is a loss of identity.

Death is the one certainty we all have, I take comfort in this but losing who I am is what scares me because even any belief on offering, still states that you will not be who you are on this earth after death.

A lot of people are in complete denial that death is going to come to them at one point even when they think they are not, never mind trying to even ask what death actually is or what comes after it.

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