reply to post by Tripple_Helix
Thank you for your input.
Thank you for the reply.
It struck a cord with me because what you explained is quite true.
I have some experience explaining dreams.
I often regret aspects of my own personality...
A lot of people do, if people did not then I would consider them dangerous individuals. You dreaming about it in this hectic manner means that you are
somewhat more critical of yourself than the average person. Which is a good thing mind you(so don't let this positive trait drag you down, it really
is a gift)
and then I will sit and harp on things I have said or done on impulse which I shouldn't have.
Instead of harping on it, and by using the word harping I think you are annoyed with the fact that you harp on it. If you can't get rid of this, do
the following; take some time out in your day(only needs to be a little), say before you go to sleep, and go through the day; what you said, what you
did etc, and look at these actions and words from an objective point of view.
Weigh the merits and decide for yourself how you could approach the situation you are thinking about better or in a more effective manner or in a
completely different manner.
The problem is- if I don't say or do those things on impulse- then I feel like I am cheating myself or- not being myself.
Of course, because those things are after all, part of you. However, that does not mean that you cannot act upon them, rather, act upon them in a way
that you do not drag yourself down.
Maybe a change of perspective is needed for you to accept these parts of you? Remember, accepting these traits does not mean you let them get a hold
of you, on the contrary, by accepting these traits as a part of you, you are opening your mind on how to learn to deal with the traits in a way that
is more comfortable to you.
However, me not knowing what these things are as I do not know you in person I have to warn you, if they involve hurting others or yourself, refrain
from them. It's healthier.
Acceptance grants you the ability to find a place for these not-wished-for traits. Turn your weak points into your strong points.
Take care and don't let the massive amount of new age stories get to your head. Most of them are based on hogwash and people selling superstitions.