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Originally posted by seentoomuch
I'll keep reading the replies and gather a consensus, so far it's, "let her fail so she can learn" which makes perfect sense, but wow, the waste of it all makes me soooo angry, but perhaps better now than later. Thanks for the replies, any witty remarks I can make to her at the party would also be greatly appreciated, she deserves that at the very least,
STM
Originally posted by seentoomuch
reply to post by posthuman
You're right, a lot of her problems are due to her mom and step father having to give her about everything she asked for. If not she would call her natural father and complain and then he would start a legal battle for custody. Finally the court got tired of hearing unsubstantiated accusations and ended the fighting once and for all. It's interesting that once the battle was over and she couldn't get a reaction from her father anymore she cut off contact, I believe she is beyond spoiled, she refuses to hear anything she doesn't like. I wonder how many children of divorce have this warped sense, don't have a name for it, but I'm sure they'll come up with one, this scenario is not unique.
Originally posted by posthuman
The more I hear about her the more I can't stand the idea of her, why do her parents care so much about her qualifications if they don't even care about the kind of person their daughter becomes?
Originally posted by seentoomuch
reply to post by posthuman
You're right, a lot of her problems are due to her mom and step father having to give her about everything she asked for. If not she would call her natural father and complain and then he would start a legal battle for custody. Finally the court got tired of hearing unsubstantiated accusations and ended the fighting once and for all. It's interesting that once the battle was over and she couldn't get a reaction from her father anymore she cut off contact, I believe she is beyond spoiled, she refuses to hear anything she doesn't like. I wonder how many children of divorce have this warped sense, don't have a name for it, but I'm sure they'll come up with one, this scenario is not unique.
Originally posted by Cygnis
Hmm, I'd honestly suggest just out-right ignoring her. Even if she does come to speak with you.. Act as if she doesn't exist.
Spoiled people who are used to getting their way absoultly hate being ignored. Also makes you a better person for not making any snyde comments, which lowers you to her playing field.
Entitlement is a disease, best delt with coldly, and absolutly. Let her fail and fall. It's the only way to learn.
(apologies for the possible spelling errors, it was always my poorest skill).
Originally posted by silent thunder
And there are millions like her, right?
So freaking grim and depressing.