A few years back I met someone. We had a small conversation and when it was done, I said "you're a cool dude, lets hang out."
The next time I saw this friend I gave them a little bit of ground rules for our friendship. I explained to them to type of person I am and suggested
that there are things I don't wish to converse with them, as this is not that sort of friendship. I told them, "never bring up religion." I don't
care what your beliefs are, or what you think is good morales and good for life. I have my beliefs and if they tried to sway my belief that I would
no longer try to be friends with them.
So 2 years go bye and everything was cool, though we didn't hang out m uch, just sort of like a run into each other and maybe share a short
conversation and go on our merry ways. Once again, because our conversations were getting more and more frequent, I reminded them they can't talk to
me about religion.
Shortly after those 2 years, this friend started to drop some hints about their beliefs and their morals and their religion. I quickly stopped them
and said, "listen, I dont want you trying to influence me." They were mad, and tried to get a few more words in suggesting I have it all wrong, and
that what they were trying to tell me was something I needed to hear. They said it fell on the lines of things that I hold dear to me. I refused and
said, "thats just your opinion."
So they kept quiet for a few more years and we became good friends. We spend some time together and shared some serious discussion. I was proud to
be a friend.
Once again this friend began to talk about beliefs and morals and how I have it all wrong.. But they weren't trying to push me to believe them, they
were only laying the guidelines to allow me to know what sort of person they are. I got extremely mad, so mad I called all my other friends and told
them how immature he was and that "he is so disrespectful, I told him to not bring his problems to my door. I didn't want to hear what he had to say
about it, and he is just thick headed and is such a loser." Some of my friends agreed, yet others said I was in the wrong, but I didn't care.
I am no longer friends with this person. I will no longer help this person, infact I wish to "ban" them if life allows such a thing.
Am I a bad person? I told them at the beginning they couldn't talk to me about religion and beliefs and morals.. so am I wrong?
please read the fine print.
edit on 3-7-2011 by Myendica because: This is a parable of sorts, and the story has been changed. But I feel explains the stupidity of
certain topics that get censored.
edit on 3-7-2011 by Myendica because: (no reason given)
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