reply to post by Leemo
First don't be nice, remember nice guys finish last. Second your 22 so who cares I think you will have plenty of other chances with the female
gender, so why are you even whining about it, who cares bro.
Most females when younger like to go back and forth gauging there options and you know "girls just like to have fun" and depending on there looks
they usually have lots of options and fun, don't take it to serious because it is anything but a serious thing.
Basically a good way to see what females are about is. Watch what they say and then do. Ever hear of this saying "Never believe what anybody says
only what they do" Actions will always speak louder then words, and every action you take or choice you make both consciously and unconsciously will
speak louder then any words, even if they are screamed from the top of a mountain.
So most times the ladies will say lots of stuff but its all just words and meaningless jabber. And a lot of it is just some sort of reverse
psychology that they get off on, so if you see a girl say she likes the nice guys. But every time you have seen her she will pass by 20 of them and
go for the bad boy, then you know what she is all about. And etc etc, it is what it is, and that's all it is.
Trust me dude, I have seen this and other things, to know what its all about. # I have even seen chicks go out with a new boyfriend every 2 months
or something and then break up with them and whine and bitch about how they can't get a man, then within a couple of days they find a new guy, and
that will last for a little while till they get bored, and then rinse and repeat the process again. Usually within a year they will usually have about
10 new boyfriends and still always whine and complain about how they cant find a man.
So some time alone will do you good, so enjoy it, because relationships and the whole love thing is overrated.
And when you find yourself, then the females will find you, it's what they look for, among other things. It's nature and the name of the game. And
knowing yourself is what it comes down to, but the more complicated you are, the longer and dangerous that process will be.
SO quit your bitching, you still got your whole life in front of you at 22, and will forget about this in a couple of days anyways.