reply to post by Leemo
young females have their choice of readily available mates. many go through them like Kleenex in a sneeze ward, laughing all the while. i'm an old
fart. Listen: most females don't care for the nice guy type. passive wimpy people-pleasers with good manners and good intentions are dull & boring.
surely you've noticed for years all sorts of ladies away with total d-bags, arsewipes, alpha males, macho jerks, you name it. i'm not saying run out
and knock old ladies off their walkers. but for gosh sakes man get some pride. stop being a door mat. stop being the "nice guy" that listen to a
girl friend (a girl that is only a friend) whine & cry broken-hearted abut yet another failed relationship while thinking "why can't she just
realize I'm a good guy, I'm perfect for her?". sucker. girl friends are great...if you're a gay guy.
the sooner you start opening your mouth and speaking your mind, that you stop letting others treat you like a door mat, the better off you will be.
i'm no Robert Redford, i didn't come from money, and in my single days i got more tail than i deserved.
speak your mind. doesn't matter if its a stranger. when you see something you like tell her so. i'll compliment women on their shoes, their nails if
they are done really cool, a pretty smile, whatever i like. women like to flirt as much as you do, maybe more. relax and enjoy yourself. remember the
#1 Rule of Sales: every NO brings you closer to a Yes.
i love women of all sorts: tall, short, long hair or short, chubby, skinny, overweight, age legal on up. women are delicious. if you limit yourself to
only eating coconut you'll never know how good it is to have mango juice all over your smiling stupid face. you're young. life is a banquet my
friend. you get the hell out there and taste every bit of strange you can. try it and all and then do it again to make sure.
i don't make crude idiot statements to women, there are some ladies that will kick your arse for being a jerk. but i learned a long time ago they can
buy their own damn drinks. a lot of them are vain entitled princesses that aren't worth your time. a lot of young ladies are real bitches that enjoy
laughing in a guys face. laugh right back and move on. avoiding the crazy ones is a plus.
over the years i've known so many dudes that were near-insane in what they would do to get tail. i remember one guys philosophy: If he went out with
a woman and she put out on the first date he would dump her because she's a whore. If she didn't put out on the first date he'd dump her because
she wasn't worth his time.
crazy, right? but the point was, that guy elevated himself to a level. he took care of himself, dressed good. he used his self-confidence to level the
field and play it like a lot of women do. treat them like Kleenex, treat them like you don't care, and see what happens. attitude goes a long way,
my older brother used a technique of walking up and talking to most every girl in the bar until one went outside with him. there are a lot of sweet
young things that like the rocket ride as much as you do, mister. seek and destroy.
another thing that will get you handfuls of trim is learning to play an instrument you like and getting your arse in a band. ho. lee. shiat. fish in a
barrel. you can be the ugliest monkey pucker in the room when you play a club date, you are getting paid and getting laid. you have to be a real moran
to blow that deal.
it's up to you. keep being Mr. Nice Guy, keep enjoying being home alone with internet porn. get your head out of your hind quarters, talk the talk
and walk the walk, see what happens. a long time ago when i was a young punk with a switchblade and a motorbike, doing as i damn well pleased in my
black leather jacket & partying with my idiot friends, i had girls asking me out. regularly. and those sweet young things weren't looking to hold my
you do what you want, i could care less. i got mine back when the getting was good and the worse that could happen was you had to get a shot of
penicillin. it's up to you: good luck.