Okay, I'm feeling a bit bored so I'm going to make quite a long post here.
I've been on tons of dates with women, and I can honestly say the easiest and most comfortable way to meet a woman is through an online dating site.
When you approach a woman in person, it can be disastrous in many ways. They could be taken, not interested, or anxiety could turn you into a rambling
buffoon. Getting shot down in person can be quite damaging to someone's self-esteem. On an online dating site, however, it is much easier. You can
read their profile, and find a common interest, and work with that to break the ice. Another reason meeting someone on an online dating site is a lot
easier is because you can take your time composing a message, making it rather difficult "screw it up". You can talk for a few days / weeks online
before meeting them in person, making the meeting a lot more comfortble than if you had just met them in a supermarket. I met my current girlfriend on
an online dating site.
If you make a profile on an online dating site, there are a few things you should know. Do not make your profile too long or revealing. If a woman can
learn everything about you by reading your profile, the mystery is removed and the woman is no longer interested. A funny and somewhat cocky profile
always gets the ladies laughing, and interested.
Before you go on the date, have the night somewhat planned out. Don't just "wing it", because that can lead to embarrasment (mini-golf course closed,
movie started 15 minutes ago, that restaurant you "spontanousely" pulled into is the suspected source of 13 food poisioning cases).
Never ever EVER ask a woman what SHE wants to do on the date. Women like it when the man takes charge and makes the decisions (if they tell you
otherwise, they are lying). If you are going out to eat, choose a restaurant that serves a wide variety of foods, and has vegetarian dishes on their
menu. This way if she doesn't like something on the menu (like meat), she can choose something else (like pasta) without making it awkward. Take a
woman to a pizza house, and she doesn't like pizza, it's going to make things very awkward. When ordering, pick something in the medium-high price
range. If you go to the Outback and order a $20 meal, the woman will feel less guilty when she orders a $14 pasta dish. If you order a $8 appetizer,
it's going to make you look like you're picking the cheapest dish so that you can cover the meal, and she will either order something just as small,
or will feel guilty about being "greedy" by choosing the $14 dish.
Another proven method is to tease / make fun of them in a playful manner. For example, if a girl says she's self conscious of her big ears, look at
her ears and confirm that they are big, and tease her jokingly about it. This method is rather tricky to master, because it is all about facial
expression and tone. Once you master it though, it is a powerful tool in seducing a woman.
Now, the first kiss. Here is what I have learned;
1. Never attempt the first kiss in front of other people. Be sure you two are alone. If the woman has a phobia against PDA (public displays of
affection), then it could end in disaster. Also, if you two are alone, then it remove the fear of being embarrased in front of your peers.
2. NEVER ask her if you can kiss her. This one is key. Women like a confident
man that takes charge
, asking for permission to kiss her
shows that you lack both traits.
3. Never kiss her in a movie theater or on her doorstep. Both are cliched and predictable.
Women want an alpha male, it's as simple as that. Is it fair? No. I'd rather be a sweet and cuddly man, but women have proven that is not what they
want. They want the kind of guy that can control every aspect of their lives. They don't want "Where do you wanna go? What do you wanna do?" they want
"We are going here. We are doing this".
Lastly, and this is the most important piece of advice I can give you... If a woman isn't interested in you, then FORGET THAT $&@*%.
Well those are some of the methods I use. I have been on countless dates, and have slept with every woman I've gone on a date with, except one (and I
honestly believe she was a lesbian looking for a free night out).
edit on 7/5/2011 by Adyta because: Spelling.