posted on Jun, 25 2011 @ 04:40 PM
Originally posted by Dilligaf28
reply to post by Starwise
The child is alive because the "sperm donor" gave the sperm that the egg needed to be fertilized! Thats science and biology that you seem to be
lacking knowledge of.
How can you speak of a man so callously? The egg would have been bled out into a tampon had the man not deposited his sperm. It took two people to
conceive that child NO woman (or womyn) can conceive the child on her own without sperm and no woman (or womyn) should be allowed to arbitrarily
terminate that life without the father's input; except to say in cases of rape or medical danger to the mother.
edit on 25-6-2011 by Dilligaf28 because: (no reason given)
Okay, my sensitive side coming out:
Look, My beliefs are: The father and mother are both responsible. I never said that I didnt think that. I was only stating other sides to the
argument. My first child: If my husband didnt want me to have my child, I would have said too f*&^*ing bad buddy....... But when I got pregnant again,
I was older and it was unexpected I thought about having an abortion. My husband asked me not to. I didnt out of respect and love. Now if he was in
agreement I would have thought more about it, but probably would not have done it....therefore the scenario would have been again, too f*&^^ing bad.
Im having this baby.
So often people come on here and they can only see their point of view. Im here to argue that there are many points of view depending on the person,
place, situation, man woman or young girl or boy......Just because I have values and morals does not mean that everyone else does.
Even though these are my personal feelings, I cannot let them get in the way of somebody elses liberty. Does that make any sense? If a woman finds out
she is pregnant from a boyfriend she has only known a few weeks for example, and she wants to get an abortion because she lives at home without a job,
and the boyfriend smokes dope all day, it is the female whose life would be most impacted at that moment in time. If she did not want to have him in
her life, deciding he would not be a good father because of his drug abuse, and he found out she was pregnant, she could lie to him and tell him it
was somebody elses child so that he would not have any say in her decision. That is just one scenario in life.....that is all I am saying, there are
countless scenarios in which a woman might say, Oh sh*t, what the heck am I gonna do. Im not saying abortion is right or wrong, what
I am saying, is that under current law it is legal. Period. The discussion of whether or not abortion should be legal is off topic and has been
discussed in many other threads and Im not going into that here......
Look, you cannot force your values on other people as much as you would like to. Its like forcing somebody to believe in God. You cant force that on