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Originally posted by dbates
I just think that the only vested interest that the government has in marriage is for the protection and financial stability of children.
Originally posted by dbates
The government isn't interested in anyone getting married, heterosexual or homosexual. What the government is interested in is the poverty and crime rates.
Originally posted by dbates
My position is that the state has no vested interested in promoting these types of unions.
One other point of discontent many people have is that "marriage" is a pre-defined word with an existing meaning.
a (1) : the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law
(2) : the state of being united to a person of the same sex in a relationship like that of a traditional marriage
Plus I don't want to flood the topic with just my discussion and ideas. I think I've already made those well know and I'm curious what others think about the issue as well. Plus people probably get tired of me yammering away anyhow.
Yes, some adult unions are preferable to others from the state's point of view.
Originally posted by SevenBeans
Originally posted by Annee
There IS currently LEGAL Government Marriage - - that affords certain privileges/rights not available elsewhere.
To deny gays the right of LEGAL Government Marriage and the privileges/rights it affords is unconstitutional.
That is the subject of this thread.
The "subject of this thread" is a lie.
The criteria for what marraiges will be legally recognized doesn't include sexual orientation.
Originally posted by SevenBeans
The state discriminates all the time but it's generally based on circumstances rather than individual traits.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
The legalities of marraige can be removed, altered or added to at any time therefore they are not rights.
Originally posted by SevenBeans
Are you suggesting that the legalities which the government imposes upon married people have not changed at all since I got married 20 years ago? Are you suggesting that I agreed to conditions that weren't even proposed until years and years after I got married?
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
I agree that the state has no vested interest. They have no vested interest in promoting marriages of old people, infertile people, asexual people or people who are childless by choice, either, yet they grant them licenses to marry just the same. They do not discriminate based on intent or ability to breed. Your argument falls flat right there.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
That may be true, but unless they discriminate against ALL who cannot bear children, your argument doesn't hold water. If only breeders were permitted to marry, you'd have a great case.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
MARRIAGE itself is the right. I don't know what these "legalities of marriage" are. What are you talking about? Examples, please.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
I don't even understand this question, mush less have the ability to answer it. What legalities does the government impose on married people and what has changed and how did that affect your marriage contract? Examples, please.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Give me an example.
Originally posted by SevenBeans
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Give me an example.
They treat custodial parents differently than non-custodial parents.
They treat someone who is bankrupt differently than someone who isn't.
They treat you differently when your healthy than when you're disabled.
I could go on and on.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
What is that meaning? Is it one of these?
If only breeders were permitted to marry, you'd have a great case.
Thanks for your answers.
Originally posted by SevenBeans
They treat the kinds of relationships prone to producing offspring differently than those kinds of relationships that aren't.
The government has no obligation to test everyone's fertility before they recognize a marraige, it would obviously be impractical and an invasion of privacy besides.
Originally posted by SevenBeans
You can have whatever kind of "marraige ceremony" you want, it's government recognition (IE. the extension of legalities to that relationship) that is the issue. The government can remove those, alter them, add to them... therefore they are not rights, government recognition of your marraige is not a right.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Just one example is the advent of no-fault divorce but there are many.
Originally posted by SevenBeans
They treat custodial parents differently than non-custodial parents.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
No they don't. They didn't treat me ANY differently, even though my husband and I could not produce offspring. We were neither prone to nor able to produce offspring, yet we were treated no differently than breeders.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Exactly! They have no obligation and no business testing or refusing people because of their intent or ability to breed. That completely ruins the argument.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
So, you don't have any examples of these "legalities that can change". That's what I thought. If you can't explain what you mean by "the legalities of marriage that can change", etc., then I can't respond to it.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
That's DIVORCE law, not marriage law. There is nothing in your marriage contract about divorce.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
No they don't. Both custodial and non-custodial parents can marry, vote, speak freely, practice their chosen religion, bear arms, drive and own homes.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Of course people are treated differently, but they are not denied RIGHTS.
Originally posted by dbates
I think the first definition was fairly accurate.
Marriage is a highly specified contract. It would be the state of being united with a person of the opposite sex in a life-long contract.
If a male walked up to a complete stranger and said I'm getting married, the response would be "what's her name?"
My grandfather remarried after my grandmother died. Personally I thought it was silly but we all humored him.
I do actually consider your opinions even if I don't indicate that.
It's all word play, either everyone, no matter what be allowed, or it's not equal. Just another fallacy foisted on us by certain special people wanting special rights.
Originally posted by arbitrarygeneraiist
Originally posted by adifferentbreed
Another intellectually bankrupt thread continues. If you don't want equal rights (including marriage) for all types of relationships, you're not exactly being honest here. It's about special rights, nothing else......in a society, not everyone can, nor should be equal, it's a fact of life.....to say otherwise is nothing less than intellectual dishonesty.
What you said isn't entirely true. It wouldn't be equal rights for all types of relationships, that would be dangerous. It is equal rights for all types of relationships between consenting, competent adults. Nothing more, nothing less. So no, it really isn't about special rights. Such a thing doesn't really exist. It's about equal rights between a responsible group of adults. It's only a bit less restrictive to how marriage already operates.
Actually, traditional marriage is a special right given to heterosexual couples. So in that sense, the concept of same-sex marriage works in reverse to what you're claiming. Traditional marriage is about special rights, allowing same-sex marriage would be about equal rights.
And here you thought this thread was intellectually bankrupt! We've still got some good stuff for you to try and dispute yet.
Originally posted by dbates
I doubt one thing will be any different.
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I think the harm comes in that it is watering down the importance or significance of the meaning of marriage.
"A rose by any other name would smell as sweet."
Homosexual unions and heterosexual unions are obviously different, why pretend they are not.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
No they don't. Both custodial and non-custodial parents can marry, vote, speak freely, practice their chosen religion, bear arms, drive and own homes.
Both bankrupt and debt-free people have the rights to petition the government, be secure in their persons, travel freely, to work for a living, to marry.
Healthy AND disabled people have the right to trial, to marry, to express themselves, to be represented in government, to have children, etc.
Originally posted by SevenBeans
Those are ACTUAL rights, having the government recognize your marraige isn't a right.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
The government doesn't have to recognize my marriage unless it is a LEGAL marriage. If I am legally married, the government must recognize it. And we are talking about LEGAL marriage.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Besides, the right to marry was included in ALL my examples. You said my examples were actual rights. Are you just not reading? Or are we still not communicating clearly?
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
For example, you keep mentioning a 'right to have the government recognize a marriage'. What does that mean? Are you talking about a legal marriage? Is it the same as the right to marry? The way you say some things is very confusing to me.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
They are not different. That is the crux of our disagreement.
Originally posted by SevenBeans
We have the right to take part in a ceremony known as marraige.
The government can choose to recognize that marraige (IE. extend legalities/conditions onto the relationship, remove those conditions, alter them, add them etc. etc.) or they can choose not to.
We have the right to take part in the religious ceremony known as marraige, or to take part in any sort of commitment ceremony etc. etc. etc. that we want.