posted on Nov, 4 2012 @ 08:36 AM
Originally posted by crappiekat
reply to post by woodwytch
Hoping you might have some time to give me a reading.
Thank you for your time and talents
I'm very concerned regarding my relationship with my man. There seems to be something different in the mix. Can't put my finger on it. I was
thinking health. Theirs an awkwardness in our time together.
edit on 26-10-2012 by crappiekat because: (no reason given)
Hey there Crappiekat ... sorry for keeping you waiting let's crack straight on with your card
The Card Drawn Is - 8 of PENTACLES
After focusing on your words in your card request I can feel the disharmony and imbalance between you and your man ... I feel your frustration and
restlessness and if they haven't started already if this is allowed to continue there will be quarrels and arguments ... and the one thing that
sticks out like a bright beacon in the dark is the 'LACK OF COMMUNICATION' that has been allowed to build-up in this relationship.
This card tells me that the problem between you and your man is down to his work / or lack of work ... the problem is stress induced ... I feel that
he is under pressure but male pride makes him want to keep it to himself ... he feels it's his problem and he alone can sort it out ... however ...
when he withdraws you get anxious and have probably tried to get him to talk or asked him (maybe even nagged him) to tell you what the matter is ...
and if this is the case then you are making the problem worse by adding to the problem and piling on more pressure. You need to be there and
supportive but he has to accept your support at his own pace ... if you continue to badger him for explanations (however well intended) you will
eventually push him away.
You need to find a way to redress the balance and re-open a channel of communication ... if he shuts down when you try to speak to him face to face
then maybe a well worded letter is in order ... where you can explain how it makes you feel but you understand the pressure and stress he's feeling
and you want to be a part of his life good and bad ... and who knows you may be able to help him.
One thing that does keep popping into my head as I write this is maybe it's time to do some re-training ... maybe a differnt path is in order.