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Man Replaces Ex-Girlfriend with Custom-Made Doll

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posted on Jun, 9 2011 @ 09:49 AM
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I don't think anything compares to the real deal. The connection of human emotions through facial expressions, physical touch, and shared interactions cannot be recreated through inanimate silicone. Sorry, but I like my women real (and preferably as beautiful as the one in the OP's avatar ).


On a side note, I can't help but think of what is involved in cleaning one of these dolls once you've finished your buisness.




posted on Jun, 9 2011 @ 10:16 AM
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S&F for posting something off-beat on ATS. Off-beat and highly interesting. This is, after all, yet another avenue on the frontier that is the "human condition." For all the weirdness, cryptids, UFOs, conspiracies, etc. posted on ATS, this topic dealing with human sexuality, intimacy and passion, is an inherent part of each of us, all of us.

DISCLAIMER: I'm happily married and do not own one of these. I do love to write, and love plays/theatre; as a writer and performer, you have to be able to get into the heads of characters. Some actors even employ a technique called "character embodiment," (or Method Acting) in which they try to BECOME the character (you might have heard of some "eccentric" actors NOT stepping out of character as long as they are on set, even in-between takes. I think I heard that Christian Bale stays in character as Batman as long as he's still on the set. All of that being said, I'll try to get into the mindset of someone who might order one of these sex dolls. I might be completely off, but here's a shot.

1. It's a big, big, BIG world filled with billions of people. Some people might feel lost in the crowd; they might find it hard to make a connection. Before long, after failed relationships (or NO relationships), they might want *human interaction* in an intimate way. Sure, they might go to a prostitute or escort, but in most places it is illegal and risky (Vegas and D.C. aside). Watching DVDs can only take them so far. Before long, this person is aging and might not feel very attractive. He might have gone through a dry spell during which he hasn't had intimacy with a woman for years. He hears about this sex doll and it awakens something in him... He can have his pick and choice of an attractive girlfriend. Did you ever see the (very harsh) experiment with the baby monkey? As a baby, the monkey was taken from his real mother. In his cage was provided a fake mother that was nothing more than a wire-framed, simple-looking doll-like "mother" with a rug type of texture over the frame. But, it had simple eyes, nose and mouth. The poor monkey cuddled with the fake mother like it was his real mother. Point is: if we aren't getting the kind of affection from a "real" source (girlfriend, wife, etc.), people will use a substitute even knowing that it is not real, just like that poor monkey. So, lonely guys who just haven't received Love's Sweet Charity (as the Whitesnake song "Here I Go Again" sings), might resort to receiving that intimacy from a sex doll. There's no shame in it. Personally, I wouldn't do it, but I've been lucky. Not everyone is. Heck, the sales numbers alone express how popular loneliness is.

2. Another type of guy might just be one who has a heightened libido. He's in a relationship already and has intimacy as much as he wants. BUT... he is also the kind of guy who loves the THRILL of cheating on his significant other. AND... he is also the kind of guy would not ever cheat on his significant other. YET... he cannot resist the thrill of doing it. First, he might sneek and watch porn. Next, he might purchase such a sex doll and hide her somewhere, in a box in the back corner of the garage where the wife never ventures. OR, in his study closet, again, a private place his family might never venture. Or in the attic, or basement. You get the idea. Then, whenever he can, he might become intimate with the doll. Could this potentially ruin his relationship? Very likely, but he can always say that it wasn't a real person. That may not fly very far, but at least he didn't cheat on his wife, for REAL, -no disease risks, no Fatal Attraction moments, etc.

We could go on and on, but that's what I have in a couple of minutes of trying to imagine a couple of scenarios as to WHY men/people might do something that seems extreme and weird. Basically, it's two factors: loneliness (baby monkey); and, thrill-seeking.

Thanks for posting.



posted on Jun, 9 2011 @ 10:33 AM
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Originally posted by amaster
On a side note, I can't help but think of what is involved in cleaning one of these dolls once you've finished your buisness.


I couldn't help going to their website to find the answer.... : )





posted on Jun, 9 2011 @ 10:46 AM
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Thank you for that, especially the images it created so early in the morning!

I guess I was wrong also, I thought they used these:




posted on Jun, 10 2011 @ 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by boondock-saint
ok, let's do an analogy here.
Let's see what might be some of the reasons
why someone would resort to having their own
sex doll.

hmmmmm,

1) They may have a criminal background
which prevents most women from wanting
anything to do with them.

2) They may have a certain fetish which they
can not get from another human who might
consider their fetish abnormal. There are some
things women just won't do. If that is the fetish
then only a doll would do them.

3) They may have certain health problems
which causes them to be inadequate in the
sex dept and thusly no need to satisfy a doll.

4) They may be so unattractive by either burns,
or surgery or acne or obesity that nobody wants
them in their sex life. A doll doesn't care what they
look like.

5) A doll never says No, never has a headache, never
has to be fed, never talks back or argues and doesn't
require your credit card to turn her on.

6) A doll never cheats, never lies and never eats
and is low maintenance. And will never get pregnant
or sue for child support or alimony.

7) You can dress her anyway you like, even if it's
nothing at all and she never complains.

8) There is NO DRAMA and she never steals your
money or moves your stuff where you can't find it.

9) She never b!tches cuz you want to watch that
ball game Sunday afternoon.

10) She never requires more attention or time
than you have available to give. And she is
always compatible with your wishes.

11) And she never complains of having sex
while watching porn and don't care if you
watch it online.

12) And she'll never have female health problems
including PMS nor will she ever give you a STD.

that's all I can think of right now


Hey - you sold me! I'm gonna see if i can swop my wife for one! LOL


Seriously, I think some people just need to retreat from the world, I know that feeling sometimes! So you'r a loaner and horny..... dolls have been arround for years, why not get the best on offer?
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posted on Jun, 13 2011 @ 11:04 PM
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one thought ..what if you have an incureable sexualy transmitted diesease ? still want sex but unlike most men who would infect others.you use the doll instead ?



posted on Jun, 13 2011 @ 11:15 PM
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Makes me think of necrophilia, they look so dead, with that blank gaze of lifelessness.



posted on Jun, 13 2011 @ 11:18 PM
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Originally posted by HarmonicNights
This seems to be yet another symptom of a society lacking in community and proper upbringing in families. I could only imagine someone who has experienced no love or emotional bond with another human being as resorting to this sick isolation and mental disturbance.
edit on 6/8/2011 by HarmonicNights because: (no reason given)


While I haven't ever experienced love or an emotional bond with anyone outside my family I do find myself isolated and slightly disturbed.. but I just wank it a lot.

I don't have the money for something like that and if I did I'd rather just buy a ton of weed or something.



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