posted on Jun, 4 2011 @ 01:55 PM
Not sure if I am in the right forum for this, but am seeking some help, actually.
Energy vampires. We all know someone who just sucks the life out of you. It might be the negative checker at Walmart, or a good friend who just
sucks the life right out of you with their drama. It is not necessarily a paranormal thing as I am sure everyone on the planet has experienced this
with someone at one time or another. People you see coming your way that you think--omg them again? or that give you an instant headache.
If you look up on the internet the term "Energy Vampire" you come up with tons of websites dealing with the subject. They all talk about
protecting yourself and how to go about doing just that. My question is in regards to letting an Energy vampire know that they are sucking the life
out of you. Helping them in some way to overcome this so that they can be accepted more by others.
I will give as an example someone I am extremely close to. He has a beautiful soul, especially when it comes to old folks and the handicapped whom he
will gladly help at the drop of a hat, so please don't read into him anything "evil". He sways toward drama, I have to say. Everything is an
issue and he struggles with the "poor me" and "it's always someone else's fault" syndromes. I have no desire to cut the cord with him as he is
part of me. I want to help him get out of his funk or whatever the heck it is. I do not, however, want to hurt him in any way. Anybody have any
suggestions on what to say or do? Or anything? Any thoughts are welcome unless of course they are mean hearted. I don't know how to go about it.
Thank you in advance!