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Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by gps777
Yeah and many many mothers were bashed by their partners who demanded the women hand over the money to them!
Originally posted by CRDDD
Kinda late to the thread but, the answer is to not get married.
Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by TheLordVeack
What if the woman also worked fulltime before she married? By your meaning, when a couple marries everything they earned together originally belonged to him? I don't think so. Many couples marry with barely any assets at all between them or none at all.
Originally posted by YouDeserveToKnow
Forgive my ignorance as I really don't know much about this branch of the system.. but would it not be possible to discuss this situation with the mother(s) of your children and perhaps appeal to their compassionate sides? Ask them if they'd be prepared to skip the middle man and have you pay them directly or even ask them to temporarily reduce your payments so you can try and get back on your feet.
You being taxed to shiat is obviously salting your financial wounds, and with how much you work having literally nothing to show for it has got to be the most depressing feeling ever. I really feel for you mate and wish I could help you out in some way, i'm not trying to discourage you from taking care of your kids.. but you've really gotta' take care of yourself too.
Originally posted by YouDeserveToKnow
Forgive my ignorance as I really don't know much about this branch of the system.. but would it not be possible to discuss this situation with the mother(s) of your children and perhaps appeal to their compassionate sides? .
Originally posted by YouDeserveToKnow
Forgive my ignorance as I really don't know much about this branch of the system.. but would it not be possible to discuss this situation with the mother(s) of your children and perhaps appeal to their compassionate sides? Ask them if they'd be prepared to skip the middle man and have you pay them directly or even ask them to temporarily reduce your payments so you can try and get back on your feet.
Originally posted by earthdude
The goverment should step in when children are abused. We have laws against that. If dad won't pay to get food and clothing for them, this is child abuse. So yeah, stick with the crazy woman or the law will make you pay and pay. Silly breeders.