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Originally posted by dizzie_lizzie79
I think this whole paying a certain percentage of your pay checks is NON sense!!! It should be based more along the lines of HALF of the average cost a month to care for a child...NOT a percentage!!
Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by gps777
These men's groups need to wise up to the fact that not all males who commit suicide are fathers....and I'm sick and tired of them adding the statistics of war veterans, elderly men, male students and married men who lost out on the stock market, businessmen whose businesses failed, in to their statistics.
A man who commits suicide most probably than not already had psychological issues that caused the breakup of their families in the first place. This is fact!
Excluding war veterans (because thats a whole different ball game), those non-custodial fathers and failed businessmen who commit suicide are weak cowards in my books.
Originally posted by sonnny1
Originally posted by dizzie_lizzie79
I think this whole paying a certain percentage of your pay checks is NON sense!!! It should be based more along the lines of HALF of the average cost a month to care for a child...NOT a percentage!!
Thats whole line of thinking is nonsense.Why have ANYONE tell you how to raise your children,or how much money is needed?
Originally posted by queenofsheba
Child support...has to do with money.
And no one is ever happy when it comes to their money being taken away.
Doesn't matter what side you're on...always someone screaming 'bout their money.
Originally posted by gps777
reply to post by sonnny1
Well done sonnny1,saved me the effort
Not that it`ll do her any good,but for others to see that losing ones children affects men greatly,some don`t handle it at all well,then add the finacial burden of supporting two homes,while being called a dead beat when many struggle and depression can easily set in.
I find it heartless to not consider what many fathers have been through with next to no help available.
Child support in money,shouldn`t be taken away,responsible people gladly give it.Yet the gov will come in and take it away as if everyone is irresponsible.
Child support in money,shouldn`t be taken away,responsible people gladly give it.Yet the gov will come in and take it away as if everyone is irresponsible.
Originally posted by sonnny1
reply to post by dizzie_lizzie79
Not saying the Government isnt the problem.I totally agree. But WHY should the corrupt judicial system,gender-biased system be involved? I know plenty of people that need,me included. I handle it on my own though. No freebies no handouts,No excuses. No need,because its MY problem,not societys. Too bad everyone doesnt think like that,.
Originally posted by bluemirage5
Males between the ages of 20-30 years of age whom committed suicide did not do so because of separation and divorce my friend! Get real!
Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by TheLordVeack
Unfortunately my friend, there are many fathers who have committed Domestic Violence against their ex wives and/or children and do not deserve access to their children.