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Originally posted by Annee
Originally posted by CobraCommander
Originally posted by Annee
Someone must have really done a number on you.
You do know - of course - women have to get men's permission to fight in wars. It is still men making the military rules.
There are plenty of women in Congress, write your senator if you don't like the rules of the military.
I for one really don't care who goes to war, but mixed gender units lack cohesion. As do mixed gender-preference units.
You are reaching off topic.
And blowing up a simple and factual statement I made.
Originally posted by Annee
The minute your zipper went down - - you became 50% responsible.
That's called biology.
Originally posted by CobraCommander
Originally posted by Annee
Originally posted by CobraCommander
She did choose to by herself, that's the point. It's her choice, not the man's. And don't say that the man made the choice when he had sex because if that's the case, then so did the woman and abortion should be outlawed.
I'm really tired of your Poor Me whining.
She chose by herself to have intercourse that can result in a pregnancy? Sure she did.
Or is it immaculate conception?
Oh Gawd! Another man giving his opinion on abortion. Sorry not interested.
The only people here with the "poor me" mentality are the women who whine about how they can't afford a kid THEY chose to have.
And I know you don't want to hear it, because you are biased and unwilling to accept that your position is one of hypocrisy.
Originally posted by CobraCommander
reply to post by Cheesefacedogbone
She is bull#ting you. Unless she applied for some sort of state-aid, she would have had to report you for the state to even know you weren't paying support in the first place. Second of all, there is nothing illegal about paying support out of pocket, and you don't need "exempt" status to do so. And, regardless of your "agreement" is she were ever to go to the state and claim that you were not making payments, your agreement would have very little legal bearing. Particularly if she went to the state for some sort of social services assistance.
Originally posted by Cheesefacedogbone
reply to post by CobraCommander
Ok you are right. I forgot about that. The state did find out because she did apply for state-aid. But like I said, I have a signed and notarized document, stating that I dont have to pay anything at all. But in my case, all of that paperwork is totally irrelevant. It simply doesnt matter. Maybe she could take me to court and win, but the simple fact is she wont. We get along perfectly. always have. She's married now, and everything is still cool. In the last 4 years we have not had a single argument or disagreement that we couldnt work out peacefully. I guess my point is, we get around all the drama by remaining friends mostly for our daughters sake, but also because, even though we are not in a relationship, we still care about each other. I know its not like this for many people. Im just sharing my experience.
Originally posted by CoherentlyConfused
The only thing that needs to be said in this thread is this: If you have sex with someone and a life is created from that encounter, both parties are responsible for that life. Period. The ONLY exception to that would be if both parties would agree to the complete and total renig of the other's rights, for instance for adoption purposes.
I am a woman and I pay child support.
I'm sick and tired of hearing men complain. There is absolutely ZERO excuses that you can come up with that, even though you can't stand the person that you produced your offspring with, you cannot maintain a healthy and responsible relationship with the life you directly brought into the world. NONE.edit on 11-6-2011 by CoherentlyConfused because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Cheesefacedogbone
reply to post by CobraCommander
Im not trying to argue with you. Mostly because I admit I dont know a ton about how the whole deal works, But, When I initially got the paperwork saying I owed back payments, It said I owed somewhere around $3000, and my ex simply signed a waiver that said I had payed, and that was that. No reciepts were necessary. Even if something were to happen and they wanted me to pay back payments, wouldnt we be able to do that again?
Originally posted by CoherentlyConfused
The only thing that needs to be said in this thread is this: If you have sex with someone and a life is created from that encounter, both parties are responsible for that life. Period. The ONLY exception to that would be if both parties would agree to the complete and total renig of the other's rights, for instance for adoption purposes.
I am a woman and I pay child support.
I'm sick and tired of hearing men complain. There is absolutely ZERO excuses that you can come up with that, even though you can't stand the person that you produced your offspring with, you cannot maintain a healthy and responsible relationship with the life you directly brought into the world. NONE.edit on 11-6-2011 by CoherentlyConfused because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by CoherentlyConfused
reply to post by CobraCommander
You're right, you're right....men should have equal say in a woman's pregnancy. I do believe men should absolutely have a say. And if a woman thinks she wants to abort or put the child up for adoption, then a legal agreement by both parties needs to be signed. It should be equal rights from the moment of conception. I agree.edit on 11-6-2011 by CoherentlyConfused because: (no reason given)