posted on Jun, 1 2011 @ 02:23 AM
reply to post by sonnny1
Thank you for your kind words.
My grand daughter talks to me a lot because she knows I will always level with her, without bad mouthing her mother...........never have bad mouthed
her mother, I won't stoop that low.
Her mother has lied to her about her father and us............told her, her father left her and I did tell her, no I was there the night your mother
came to our house (we were babysitting) and she took you and disappeared for three months. (legally that is okay for the mother in Illinois) "Your
father never left you that is a lie, your mother left your father with you."
I simply told the truth.
Our grand daughter, because she also has talks with her father and they developed such a strong bond has asked when in the heck is the judge going to
talk to her?
The lawyer said, "When you are twelve"..........she said, "I'm ready, when they ask me, I'm going to tell them I want to live with my father and
my stepmother who loves me more than my real mom".............and we did not push her into making those comments.
She still cries and gets bent out of shape Sunday evening when it's time to go back to her mother's.
But, she is stable, she is logical and we know she will survive this because we love her.
Some people, no names mentioned, haven't a clue, they really need to go to divorce court and sit in and listen to the BS...............they haven't
a clue as to how corrupt the system is and how it is specifically designed not to help the real victims, the children but to pad the wallets of the
judges, the lawyers and all the rest of the crooked judicial divorce system.
Some folks haven't a clue.