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Originally posted by CobraCommander
One other thought here as well, if I may.
I know of many single parent-households where the mother has several children by several different men. If, let's say, two of three fathers are not paying support because they are in prison, is that suddenly the responsibility of the third father to make up the difference and pay the rent and utility bills for children that are not even his?
Originally posted by CobraCommander
We are still trying to sort it out, but our best estimate at the moment is that the state pocketed over $15,000 in child support from us.
Originally posted by CobraCommander
Don't pretend as if you are the only one who pays bills. I run a group foster home.
Originally posted by Stewie
reply to post by Aeons
You are insinuating exploitation. Shame on you.
I am proposing that we have not even begun to explore how the children can contribute to their own well-being.
And, I have some history as well dear, if you really want to go there.
Originally posted by Annee
Originally posted by CobraCommander
We are still trying to sort it out, but our best estimate at the moment is that the state pocketed over $15,000 in child support from us.
That doesn't even make any sense.
Originally posted by dawnstar
Originally posted by Annee
Originally posted by CobraCommander
We are still trying to sort it out, but our best estimate at the moment is that the state pocketed over $15,000 in child support from us.
That doesn't even make any sense.
what doesn't make sense?? that the state could "lose" child support money...well, sorry if this doesn't make sense to ya, but I probably could dig up the court papers to prove that is happens....
or the $15,000 part, do you think that is a bit much??
well there's a big story now occurring in my city....it's a really interesting story, would love to go into it...but well, let's just bring up the part that's the most relevant, although the whole story is relevant..but well,
if a couple splits up has two kids, just how in the world can one end up owing the other over $10,000?? she was working two jobs, and by law, the child support had to have been taken out, and well, they each had custody of one kid, so in reality, the support should have neutralized..the father was a cop, so well, that's a 30-40 thousand a year job or thereabouts....
and yet, she owed him over $10,000 dollars when he gunned her down in a parking lot of a convenience store.......
I agree, the current system is a disaster.....there has to be a better way....but well, if the taxpayers are gonna be paying out of the arse to take care of all these kids where mommy and daddy just don't want to do it, why don't they take care of all the kids?? or at least those sick kids whose parents can't come up with the money and are told the best way for the kid get the care they need is to split up and put him on welfare, or put him in a foster home???