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Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by CaDreamer
Do non-custodial fathers need a house to live in?
A one bedroom apartment is quite sufficient for non-custodial fathers since they don't have their kids most of the time.
Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by Annee
Non-custodial parents are not realistic when it comes to child support.
This is the list of which non-custodial parents should pay half of in child support to the custodial parent:
1. Rent
2. Utilities (electricity, gas, water, phone)
3. Food
4. Clothing *basic
5. Transport
6. Dental checks @ twice a year including extras if needed
7. Medical/therapy (when needed)
8. Education (school fees, uniforms, stationary, extras)
9. Sports/extra activities
10. Tutoring *optional
any other costs relating to the said child beyond the above list then becomes optional for the non-custodial parent.
Now why is that so difficult? Now as a custodial parent, I'd be more than happy to cough up receipts for the above list to my ex..........getting paid is a whole different ball game though!
Originally posted by Annee
Originally posted by And Now What
OMG are you serious? Yes the money is supposed to be for the kids, but more times than not it isn't. Tell me one mother, or father for that matter that receives cs that don't sit down at the kitchen table and eats the food that the other parents cs payed for............Do they Buy there own food separate? NO theres no better example than that
PERIOD! IMHO
YOU made a child. That is at least 50% your responsibility - - no matter what the circumstances are.
Child support payment is not YOUR money - - it is your child's money.
Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by CaDreamer
You allege you pay $1,000.00 a month just for insurance for your kids? Ahhhhhhh, can you be more specific because I'm having trouble believing that! I'm well aware of how much medical insurance costs.....and it aint $1000.00 a month my friend!
Originally posted by HomerinNC
reply to post by die_another_day
dont get me started on alimony...
alimony just means: I'm too lazy to get a job, so pay me for sitting around and doing nothing
Originally posted by CobraCommander
Originally posted by Annee
Originally posted by And Now What
OMG are you serious? Yes the money is supposed to be for the kids, but more times than not it isn't. Tell me one mother, or father for that matter that receives cs that don't sit down at the kitchen table and eats the food that the other parents cs payed for............Do they Buy there own food separate? NO theres no better example than that
PERIOD! IMHO
YOU made a child. That is at least 50% your responsibility - - no matter what the circumstances are.
Child support payment is not YOUR money - - it is your child's money.
My responsibility ends with $300, half the cost of an abortion, plus cab fare.edit on 1-6-2011 by CobraCommander because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by CaDreamer
But a majority of fathers who do have shared custody do NOT have their children 6 months of the year, let alone 3 months of the year.
If you can only afford a small room in a shared house then thats probably because you either earn less than $30k a year or you have a lot of debt meaning at some point in your life you lived well beyond your means. .
Originally posted by And Now What
Originally posted by CobraCommander
Originally posted by Annee
Originally posted by And Now What
OMG are you serious? Yes the money is supposed to be for the kids, but more times than not it isn't. Tell me one mother, or father for that matter that receives cs that don't sit down at the kitchen table and eats the food that the other parents cs payed for............Do they Buy there own food separate? NO theres no better example than that
PERIOD! IMHO
YOU made a child. That is at least 50% your responsibility - - no matter what the circumstances are.
Child support payment is not YOUR money - - it is your child's money.
My responsibility ends with $300, half the cost of an abortion, plus cab fare.edit on 1-6-2011 by CobraCommander because: (no reason given)
ouch! you sir are no longer my hero...
Originally posted by Teeky
I think it's hard for everyone. Also think in terms of if you had the children 24/7 or majority of the time. Taking care of your offspring is priceless and not only requires money, but, energy, time and patience.
Being the custodial parents means less time to yourself, and being on constant guard.
Originally posted by CobraCommander
Originally posted by And Now What
Originally posted by CobraCommander
Originally posted by Annee
Originally posted by And Now What
OMG are you serious? Yes the money is supposed to be for the kids, but more times than not it isn't. Tell me one mother, or father for that matter that receives cs that don't sit down at the kitchen table and eats the food that the other parents cs payed for............Do they Buy there own food separate? NO theres no better example than that
PERIOD! IMHO
YOU made a child. That is at least 50% your responsibility - - no matter what the circumstances are.
Child support payment is not YOUR money - - it is your child's money.
My responsibility ends with $300, half the cost of an abortion, plus cab fare.edit on 1-6-2011 by CobraCommander because: (no reason given)
ouch! you sir are no longer my hero...
Lol. I am not a fan of abortion really. But so long as that is an option for women, that is where the man's responsibility ends. If she wants to keep it, that's her choice.
Not to mention that she could also give it up for adoption. Can the man put the kid up for adoption if he can't afford to pay support?
Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by Annee
Non-custodial parents are not realistic when it comes to child support.
This is the list of which non-custodial parents should pay half of in child support to the custodial parent: