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Originally posted by bluemirage5
It's all to do with COMMON SENSE....I tried to tell you about 100 posts back but like I said, if you can't meet your ex wife half way and negotiate child support, you obviously lack basic communication skills and could'nt negotiate your way out of a fish bowl!
Originally posted by nixie_nox
The best thing for a child when they are young is to stay home and bond with a parent. Not to be stuck in an institutional setting, with strangers and non family members. Not to mention the cost of childcare is extremely expensive and it may have been more then the salary of the person working, so they opt to stay home, and usually choose the person who makes more to keep working.
But by your blaise attitude, we should just stick all children into daycares and what is best for them be damned.
Originally posted by nixie_nox
And why should we live in a society that punishes people for raising their children? The US is already the worst for that, many countries allow paid maternity leave. Why are you advocating the seperation of children from their parents?
Originally posted by nixie_nox
Good thing your not. You advocate institutiosn raising children and that no one should be held responsible for providing for them.
Originally posted by nixie_nox
by the way, congrats on being a professional victim.
Originally posted by bluemirage5
If a woman has broken out of an abusive relationship then that obviously tell you the husband's communication skills is that of a caveman...or worse.
Originally posted by bluemirage5
If both parents have come to a private arrangement in regards to child support/access/property and assets, the lawyers draw up the legal documents and get it stamped by the Family Court without either parent being there. No custodial parent forfeits child support.....thats just wishful thinking on your part. No judge is going to accept a private agreement where child support is not part of that and no custodial parent is going to agree to such a private arrangement where child support is not going to be paid anyhow.
Originally posted by bluemirage5
There you go.....and now you have some understanding WHY non-custodial parents should pay child support!
Originally posted by bluemirage5
99.9% of non-custodial fathers do not want shared custody arrangements because it means he would have the children 6 months of the year!
Originally posted by bluemirage5
The non-custodial parents who treat their ex wives like crap would'nt dare go on to the streets or to work and speak to his employer or fellow workers with the same disrespect......once you are no longer a couple, you treat your ex wife with the same respect you would of your fellow man.
For example: you abuse your wife but you would'nt dare go and abuse your boss or fellow work mates, right? So that means you do have a level of control outside the home.
Originally posted by bluemirage5
That tells me constructive communication can be achieved if you treated your ex wife with dignity and respect in the first place.