posted on May, 28 2011 @ 02:38 PM
reply to post by bluemirage5
Men who abuse women are summed up under one single word: Narcissist !!!
Narcissist Personality Disorder (NPD):
The most aggressive (and violent) narcissists are those when criticized or offended.
Here are similar personality disorders:
While in a marriage with a Narcissist; this always poses problematic. I always suggest to plan well ahead because the Narcissist is always 10 steps
ahead of you. Never share the same bank accounts; never keep your personal papers in the same house of a Narcissist. If you are a full time working
wife, never allow more than 50% of your earnings to go in to the home/bills. Never share a business together. If you are just his business partner,
watch him like a hawk. Have a different accountant do your taxes and do not share one even if it costs extra because you'll be much better off in the
long term. Keep the business ledgers straight because he won't. If the marriage fails, and they usually do, he's going to do whatever it takes to
clean you out. Make sure your lawyer is better than his.
Most Narcissists, in a majority of cases, usually end up accumilating wealth but end up dying alone without family and friends. In many cases, become
Narcissists usually have only a small group of friends.....Narcissists themselves. They won't befriend non-Narcissists because they're not useful
There are good Narcissists and there are bad Narcissists. When the good confront the bad, the bad Narcissists always runs for the hills because they
are always mentally challenged. Although bad Narcissists think they are mentally and physically superior to their "subjects", they themselves will
avoid at all costs a good Narcissist as they are afraid of any confrontation with them. Women are always charmed by the bad Narcissists....but are
intimidated by a female Narcissist (good and bad) who play them at their own games.
How would I punish a man who physically abuses a woman? Call the Police and have him arrested for assault. If he mentally and/or economically abuses
you....get the hell out of the relationship - fast!
The best way to identify them......when he asks you alot of questions but is secretive about himself and his life or he brags about himself and shows
no interest in YOU. It only takes approx the first 5-15 minutes to identify one straight away upon first meeting.
edit on 28-5-2011 by bluemirage5 because: (no reason given)