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Originally posted by Night Star
That's a very tough and personal choice. Many would and many wouldn't for a myriad of different reasons. Just think long and hard before you decide. Good luck to you.
Originally posted by bluemirage5
reply to post by jude11
How many children have each of you sired? I'm assuming one of you have 2 and the other 1.
Although the ultimate decision lays with you both, get some feedback and ask the other children how they would feel about it......
Originally posted by Golithion
If you have the means to be able to take care of a child it is one of those wondrous things in life. The only thing is get your mind right cause your relationship will never be the same again. It will go from one and two to a plus one and or plus many. Be prepared for everything that comes along with that, and have the mindset that you are now going to have a huge responsibility that is not going to go away once you make the decision. If you can't decide my personal opinion is get her a dog and or a cat, even a fish or a bird, but not a baby. Any doubt leave without as they say. But as already pointed out it is a very personal opinion and it is very fare to bring a child into the world. Seeing the birth of my niece and nephew is one of the most life changing things that has ever happened to me.
Originally posted by Night Star
There is no doubt that the child will be loved and finances arn't a problem. We just don't know what the future will hold and wether or not when the child grows into adulthood, what that world will be like for him/her. That's just it, none of us know for sure. You can have that child, nurture it and love it and hope for the best as all parents do when having a child.
Originally posted by Planet teleX
My wife and I are against reproducing (not in a judgmental way) and recommend adopting for those who are interested in raising a child.
And here is a link to a group with extreme views on the matter: The Voluntary Human Extinction Movement
PTX
Originally posted by Golithion
reply to post by jude11
That is the worse thing you can do to yourselves in this situation is try to predict the future. Heck I don't even think god can predict it. But believe you me with your guidance and hers by the sounds of it you have nothing to fear. Teach the kid everything you know and will get along in the world just fine.