posted on May, 19 2011 @ 11:56 AM
First off, your children are lucky to have you, so hang in there.
I'm afraid I had the opposite problem when my boys were young and I divorced their father. It was an inconvenience to have to take his kids for the
weekend. The first time he did so, I actually went out with a girlfriend, he tracked me down, with the kids in the car, and told me he was going to
drop them off at my home and call child protective services on me! Mind you, this was 5 hours into his weekend!! After 15 years of hell dealing with
him, the best thing to come out of it, was when my oldest said to me recently, "You know mom, you never said anything bad about dad, you let us find
out on our own. I love you."
So basically, no matter how bad it gets, just be there for them whenever you can, love them, support them, and you will be rewarded big time!!!!
Also, not sure what the laws are there, but here in my state, at 13, the child gets to choose where they want to live. That can be a good thing and a