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Many men still see staying home to watch their own children as "babysitting" while they see their wives/girlfriends staying home with their children as a given.
"Generally, the circumstance is who stays home with them the most. Usually, it is the female. That is not sexism. That is natural. Women are better at that"
That statement is sexist.
" I work at a movie theatre. To me, that's just normal work because I do it all the time. If you suddenly had to take a day away from your schedule, and do my job for just one day you'd probably say that it wasn't really a job, just something that you had to do on the side. It's the same thing."
It's not the same thing. The movie theater is not something that belongs equally to you and to me. A child would be.
"I know of a couple where the man stays home, and the woman does the work. Of course, everyone makes fun of him and says he's worthless and doesn't respect him for it. If he was a woman, would they be saying these things? No, they would be saying that the poor wife does all the work while the mmaann just waltzed off to his little job and comes home and parks his a$$ on the couch."
1) Everyone makes fun of him for "being the woman". This in itself should tell you how women are STILL viewed today. That staying home with the children and keeping house is still considered normal and something to be expected of a woman. It's normal for her to "be in her place". Women are still not starting out as equals.
2) Everyone wouldn't say "the poor wife does all the work". They'd say that the wife gets to stay home while the man has to go out to work and support them. I know this because I've known people in this position. Because the woman doesn't have to to outside the home to work, she's viewed as "getting" to stay home all day. Her work is seen as "housework". I even know a man who said "I've got 6 brothers and sisters and my mother never worked a day in her life. My dad had to go out every day and earn the money". This is not an isolated incident, this is a fairly general concensus.
As to the subject of this thread, I still don't see the harm in the "female superior" flavor in comedy today. I even remember you had a thread up awhile ago about a girl who asked you out, but you didn't want to go, and were trying to figure out an excuse to tell her or something. Lots of people said to either; go out and get laid or tell a lie. I told you to be honest with her. You went anyway. Maybe there's something to this thing of females being in charge after all?