Originally posted by ScousePhil
So the victim should've changed school and joined another team? Why should she change her lifestyle just to accomodate him.
yes, because her obligation/responsibility is to the team that she chose to be a part of. it would not be accommodating 'him' it would be
accommodating her school and peers. the matter between her and the player has nothing to do with the school or basketball for that matter.
And how dare you blame the victim for putting herself in that position. It is not okay to assault anyone regardless of where they are or
whether they are drunk or not.
calm down snappy. im not blaming her for being assaulted, im blaming her for putting herself in an environment that led to her being assaulted, I.E.
under-age, unsupervised, drinking.
That's the same type of weak arguement as saying she was wearing sexually provocative clothing so she was asking for it.
nobody said that.
He admitted to sexually assaulting her and while that may not mean he followed through and went on to rape her I'm sure it still had an effect
on her mentally.
nobody is disputing his conviction. what i am making clear is what he was
NOT convicted of and that is rape. there may not be much difference
to you but to the courts there is. a felony is much different than a misdemeanour's, and therefore what constitutes each is much different. as far as
the rest of his life goes it makes ALL the difference.
And it was completely insensitive of the school administrators to expel her from the team for not cheering someone who was CONVICTED of
assaulting her.
the school is not required to be sensitive nor does it have to cater to personal matters between students unless mandated by the courts. again, your
channelling your anger at the wrong entity,
And yes the fact that she was thrown of the team can have ramifications for her future. And who cares if his future is affected she's not the
one who assaulted someone why should she suffer anymore.
because BARE MINIMUM she needs to walk away from this learning:
a) to not drink under-age/unsupervised.
and
B) to hang with a different crowd.
The court made the wrong decision by saying it was a frivilous lawsuit when anyone with a conscience can see it was entirely justified.
it wasnt justified at all. its not the job of a public school to play Dr.Phil and mediate external disputes between students, unless mandated by the
courts. again, your mad at the wrong entity. take it out on the courts.
your knee-jerk anger is what almost cost the school upwards of 50 grand. and im sure they are hurting allready.
YOU say POOR LITTLE GIRL
I say POOR ALL-OF-THE-OTHER CHILDREN. they had nothing to do with any of it!