posted on Aug, 1 2004 @ 07:08 PM
Man.. tough one. I've been there.
On the one hand, she sounds like she's flip flopping a bit. You say she's on medication for scitzophenia? If that's true then her parents are
obviously aware of the situation. Maybe you should talk to them... nothing intrusive, just inquiring how she is, maybe saying she's been a bit funny
lately and asking if they know of anything the matter... then take it from there.
On the other hand, you've got to be sure she's not just a drama queen/victim type. Do you know her parents yourself, or does everything you know
about her life come from her? I know it sounds cold, but first and foremost you have your own sanity to think of.
Sometimes dropping everything and running to her aid at every emotional crisis will only make things worse. Stay in touch and ask her out regularly
to do fun/date type stuff, and obviously be there to listen, but if she really has got problems, it's unlikely to be something you can solve for her.
Just bear that in mind.
It's happened to me. Twice!
[Edited on 1-8-2004 by muppet]