Orgasms Without Love Are feeding Evil!

Hate it when anyone starts a thread (no matter the topic) with "I know this might be hard to comprehend, I was there once myself."

You're pretty much saying, "I came up with this BS theory and because you don't buy in to it, you're not as far along as I am."

Medieval era...

very strict moral rules...masturbation was considered a sin

happy times?

well, ya...if you don't mind the whole crusades thing, massive death, torture, etc.


modern time
rampant masturbation
population explosion...tolerance...medical breakthroughs...fantastic standard of living for 2/3rds the world population comparatively.

so...this evil thing..what exactly is evil about it?

btw, I never have orgasms without love...if I didn't love it, I wouldn't do it

reply to post by Scorpitarius

No offense, but the way you talk about "energy" is meaningless. I don't transfer "energy" to my partner during sex. I transfer seminal fluids. You're conflating "energy" with emotional reaction.

When someone is addicted to loveless orgasms, be it through one night stands, cheating, or masturbation; they exponentially continue to struggle harder and harder to find a release

This makes my point for me. It's not that it's "loveless" that makes it "harder to find a release." Rather the expectations rise. Our imaginations greatly differ from what we can get away with our sex partners.

reply to post by SaturnFX

Medieval era... very strict moral rules...masturbation was considered a sin happy times? well, ya...if you don't mind the whole crusades thing, massive death, torture, etc. modern time rampant masturbation population explosion...tolerance...medical breakthroughs...fantastic standard of living for 2/3rds the world population comparatively. so...this evil thing..what exactly is evil about it? btw, I never have orgasms without love...if I didn't love it, I wouldn't do it

Ok. I agree with you except on the part ''fantastic standard of living in 2/3 of the world''. You must be really out of your mind to say something like that. It is rather 1/3 and less. Really get your numbers straight.

Originally posted by xxshadowfaxx
Wow, thank you for this thread. I am very surprised to have read this. I am about to be 100% honest with whoever reads this, and I'm normally shy about this because it is not socially acceptable. I am a 27 year old virgin, and I am submissive. Recently, I have discovered male chastity devices, and purchased one. Now, you might think I am a freak, however, I have discovered something that has changed my life in a hugely positive way. I have been experimenting with my chastity device for 5 weeks now. Not very long, but long enough to realize the advantages of it. I used to have really bad habits. Never excercised, stayed up til the wee hours of the morning, got up late, procrastinated everything. Always felt tired and fatigued, with no reason to put an effort into anything. Then I chastised myself. Within 3 days, I wasn't tired anymore. Within 5 days, I had started excercising for the first time since high school, and wasn't procrastinating anything. I was getting up earlier, there for getting tired and going to bed earlier as well. I was putting so much energry into everything, and still not even feeling tired. My life has improved drastically in the past month. People I know, are surprised to see the changes, which they have noticed. And I feel like this is only the beginning, I feel like I have the potential to do whatever I want to do. I have even started writing again, something I haven't done, but had a passion for, when I was 16. I feel overall, smarter. Like a switch was turned on. I have also noticed a confidence boost, I don't seem to get as shy or nervous in social situations. Being a virgin, it's not easy for me to talk to girls, but last week I actually made one laugh and didn't feel embarassed about it. So there is definately something to sexual energy and holding it in. It gets channelled elsewhere, to other places where it can be used, to benefit you. I used to masturbate about 5 times a week, well in the past 5 weeks, it's been twice in total. And the strength of the orgasms, are 10 times better. There are so many benefits, and so far, no disadvantages to it. I have smartened my life up, and now I have the potential to do things I never thought I was capable of doing. All because of sexual energy. Who knew a man really was ruled by the little head, until you make the little head work for you, instead of working for it.

ok, I don't know what kind of chastity device you are talking about but I just had to look this up and when i did, i found things that did NOT look like they were meant to inspire you to NOT have sex.

I don't mean to make it sound like I'm picking on you but that was... um... interesting.
I especially enjoyed reading the reviews.

Are these the types of things you are talking about? Sex toys?

Do you seriously wear these when going about your daily business? If so- HOLY SMOKES!

Are you sure you're a virgin?

Originally posted by TheMalefactor
reply to post by Scorpitarius

 

No offense, but the way you talk about "energy" is meaningless. I don't transfer "energy" to my partner during sex. I transfer seminal fluids. You're conflating "energy" with emotional reaction.

When someone is addicted to loveless orgasms, be it through one night stands, cheating, or masturbation; they exponentially continue to struggle harder and harder to find a release

This makes my point for me. It's not that it's "loveless" that makes it "harder to find a release." Rather the expectations rise. Our imaginations greatly differ from what we can get away with our sex partners.

really? you should give transmuting it a whirl. it's a pretty interesting subject in my opinion.

I approached this thread with a "whatever" attitude, but then I read this line.

they start to associate their orgasm with an image rather than a sensation, and this can lead to erectile problems within a relationship.

and my last few sexual encounters have been a disaster. Maybe porn has desensitized me? I find my self not just watching one video, but skipping through multiple videos, looking for something that finally gets me off.

I really think I should just give up porn for a bit. it truely is affecting me.

Originally posted by Noobastronomer
say just imagine im a fat guy with a mole the size of a planet on my face and my teeth is outta shape pointing outwards.. which GIRL would fall for me?? .so if i dont get loved for the rest of my life.. i shouldn't enjoy my sexual life even alone??...wat a stupid theory

ps:: I LOVE MY ORGASMS ALONE

edit on 24-4-2011 by Noobastronomer because: (no reason given)

If you were able to stop orgasming, but stay in a state of arousal, you would see things from a completely different perspective, accomplish things in your life, and overall, feel better about everything you do.

Originally posted by ChaosMagician

Originally posted by xxshadowfaxx
Wow, thank you for this thread. I am very surprised to have read this. I am about to be 100% honest with whoever reads this, and I'm normally shy about this because it is not socially acceptable. I am a 27 year old virgin, and I am submissive. Recently, I have discovered male chastity devices, and purchased one. Now, you might think I am a freak, however, I have discovered something that has changed my life in a hugely positive way. I have been experimenting with my chastity device for 5 weeks now. Not very long, but long enough to realize the advantages of it. I used to have really bad habits. Never excercised, stayed up til the wee hours of the morning, got up late, procrastinated everything. Always felt tired and fatigued, with no reason to put an effort into anything. Then I chastised myself. Within 3 days, I wasn't tired anymore. Within 5 days, I had started excercising for the first time since high school, and wasn't procrastinating anything. I was getting up earlier, there for getting tired and going to bed earlier as well. I was putting so much energry into everything, and still not even feeling tired. My life has improved drastically in the past month. People I know, are surprised to see the changes, which they have noticed. And I feel like this is only the beginning, I feel like I have the potential to do whatever I want to do. I have even started writing again, something I haven't done, but had a passion for, when I was 16. I feel overall, smarter. Like a switch was turned on. I have also noticed a confidence boost, I don't seem to get as shy or nervous in social situations. Being a virgin, it's not easy for me to talk to girls, but last week I actually made one laugh and didn't feel embarassed about it. So there is definately something to sexual energy and holding it in. It gets channelled elsewhere, to other places where it can be used, to benefit you. I used to masturbate about 5 times a week, well in the past 5 weeks, it's been twice in total. And the strength of the orgasms, are 10 times better. There are so many benefits, and so far, no disadvantages to it. I have smartened my life up, and now I have the potential to do things I never thought I was capable of doing. All because of sexual energy. Who knew a man really was ruled by the little head, until you make the little head work for you, instead of working for it.

ok, I don't know what kind of chastity device you are talking about but I just had to look this up and when i did, i found things that did NOT look like they were meant to inspire you to NOT have sex.

I don't mean to make it sound like I'm picking on you but that was... um... interesting.

I especially enjoyed reading the reviews.

Are these the types of things you are talking about? Sex toys?

Do you seriously wear these when going about your daily business? If so- HOLY SMOKES!

Are you sure you're a virgin?

Yes, I am 100% positive that I am a virgin. The device I wear is called a CB-6000. And yes, it is very very comfortable. I use it for all my daily business. It's not noticable under clothes. I wouldn't consider it a sex toy, seeing it does just the opposite of promoting sex. It stops you from having it. So it's an anti-sex toy. Cost me 240 dollars, and it was worth every penny. My life has changed so much, I can't even begin to describe the benefits. It is incredible. If only more people would just try it, they would see the world in a new light.

Originally posted by xxshadowfaxx

Originally posted by Noobastronomer
say just imagine im a fat guy with a mole the size of a planet on my face and my teeth is outta shape pointing outwards.. which GIRL would fall for me?? .so if i dont get loved for the rest of my life.. i shouldn't enjoy my sexual life even alone??...wat a stupid theory

ps:: I LOVE MY ORGASMS ALONE

edit on 24-4-2011 by Noobastronomer because: (no reason given)

If you were able to stop orgasming, but stay in a state of arousal, you would see things from a completely different perspective, accomplish things in your life, and overall, feel better about everything you do.

interesting concept but doesn't the constant state of arousal... at the point where you are bringing devices into the mix of this nature... doesn't that make you ache for release?

I understand the concept of transmuting it, but it can get bad after a while, no? how does one prevent it from making you lose sleep? it turns into a nagging restless feeling eventually. I have practiced a pretty fair amount of celibacy in my life for someone who started early and have had multiple different partners over the years.

I'm feeding evil everytime i whip out my tally whacker and give him a good old massage? I honestly could not care. I have already dimissed it. I like porn and porn likes me. I have a great life and will continue to feed evil. amen.

Originally posted by xxshadowfaxx

Originally posted by ChaosMagician

Originally posted by xxshadowfaxx
Wow, thank you for this thread. I am very surprised to have read this. I am about to be 100% honest with whoever reads this, and I'm normally shy about this because it is not socially acceptable. I am a 27 year old virgin, and I am submissive. Recently, I have discovered male chastity devices, and purchased one. Now, you might think I am a freak, however, I have discovered something that has changed my life in a hugely positive way. I have been experimenting with my chastity device for 5 weeks now. Not very long, but long enough to realize the advantages of it. I used to have really bad habits. Never excercised, stayed up til the wee hours of the morning, got up late, procrastinated everything. Always felt tired and fatigued, with no reason to put an effort into anything. Then I chastised myself. Within 3 days, I wasn't tired anymore. Within 5 days, I had started excercising for the first time since high school, and wasn't procrastinating anything. I was getting up earlier, there for getting tired and going to bed earlier as well. I was putting so much energry into everything, and still not even feeling tired. My life has improved drastically in the past month. People I know, are surprised to see the changes, which they have noticed. And I feel like this is only the beginning, I feel like I have the potential to do whatever I want to do. I have even started writing again, something I haven't done, but had a passion for, when I was 16. I feel overall, smarter. Like a switch was turned on. I have also noticed a confidence boost, I don't seem to get as shy or nervous in social situations. Being a virgin, it's not easy for me to talk to girls, but last week I actually made one laugh and didn't feel embarassed about it. So there is definately something to sexual energy and holding it in. It gets channelled elsewhere, to other places where it can be used, to benefit you. I used to masturbate about 5 times a week, well in the past 5 weeks, it's been twice in total. And the strength of the orgasms, are 10 times better. There are so many benefits, and so far, no disadvantages to it. I have smartened my life up, and now I have the potential to do things I never thought I was capable of doing. All because of sexual energy. Who knew a man really was ruled by the little head, until you make the little head work for you, instead of working for it.

ok, I don't know what kind of chastity device you are talking about but I just had to look this up and when i did, i found things that did NOT look like they were meant to inspire you to NOT have sex.

I don't mean to make it sound like I'm picking on you but that was... um... interesting.

I especially enjoyed reading the reviews.

Are these the types of things you are talking about? Sex toys?

Do you seriously wear these when going about your daily business? If so- HOLY SMOKES!

Are you sure you're a virgin?

Yes, I am 100% positive that I am a virgin. The device I wear is called a CB-6000. And yes, it is very very comfortable. I use it for all my daily business. It's not noticable under clothes. I wouldn't consider it a sex toy, seeing it does just the opposite of promoting sex. It stops you from having it. So it's an anti-sex toy. Cost me 240 dollars, and it was worth every penny. My life has changed so much, I can't even begin to describe the benefits. It is incredible. If only more people would just try it, they would see the world in a new light.

the thought of something preventing me from having sex... is um... arousing.

i mean when it comes to devices or actions from a lover, that is. Cockblocking idiots who are just giving someone a hard time are nothing but annoying...ftr. Nothing arousing about that.

You are knocking it before you are trying it. Sex for men, is like having an urge to pee. If you don't pee, the urge gets worse and worse. The same is for sex. If you don't have an orgasm, the urge to have one becomes greater and greater until you get a sexual release. If you are unable to get a sexual release, that sexual energy will then be re-directed to your brain, which causes you to have more energy for other things. You will be more motivated, you will feel energized, and you will feel like your potential has increased to a point where anything is possible.

reply to post by Scorpitarius



You make a good point. I have been feeding into the whole evil paradigm for approximately 50 years now. Let's see, 3 X 365 x 50 = 54,750. That is one hell of a lot of pleasure! That actually may include those times I was with another person and they might have experienced just a little bit'o pleasure too! I'm not sure how many of those times I was listening to rock n' roll, but I would say more than half.

Just set up a day and time and I will gladly contribute to your test, or I am actually able to whack on request. Yes, it is a gift!

Originally posted by ChaosMagician

Originally posted by xxshadowfaxx

Originally posted by Noobastronomer
say just imagine im a fat guy with a mole the size of a planet on my face and my teeth is outta shape pointing outwards.. which GIRL would fall for me?? .so if i dont get loved for the rest of my life.. i shouldn't enjoy my sexual life even alone??...wat a stupid theory

ps:: I LOVE MY ORGASMS ALONE

edit on 24-4-2011 by Noobastronomer because: (no reason given)

If you were able to stop orgasming, but stay in a state of arousal, you would see things from a completely different perspective, accomplish things in your life, and overall, feel better about everything you do.

interesting concept but doesn't the constant state of arousal... at the point where you are bringing devices into the mix of this nature... doesn't that make you ache for release?

I understand the concept of transmuting it, but it can get bad after a while, no? how does one prevent it from making you lose sleep? it turns into a nagging restless feeling eventually. I have practiced a pretty fair amount of celibacy in my life for someone who started early and have had multiple different partners over the years.

Yes, the horny feel does increase over time. Sleep does become a bit of a problem, however, I have noticed that I don't need as much sleep, and yet, still feel much more energized than I ever did. So it balances itself out. The trick, to the restlessness, is to keep yourself busy. Stay productive, be creative. Work towards a long lost goal you wanted when you were growing up, because you now have the energy to accomplish it.

I don't buy it. I think man is much more hung up on sexual "sin" than God is. I really think God has much more important things to worry about than if I'm waxing my carrot.

reply to post by TuXXXeR


That's such an old excuse TuXXXeR...

As humans, we have been given other qualities such as self control, discernment and of being able to deepen the spiritual within us.
These things set us apart from being only 'carnal animals'.

Try them.

Originally posted by redstripe1229
I don't buy it. I think man is much more hung up on sexual "sin" than God is. I really think God has much more important things to worry about than if I'm waxing my carrot.

What if you are god? The amount of sexual energy that goes to the brain, actually re-generates parts of the brain that we do not use. What if we are all gods, just simply forgetting how to use our brains? If the human brain was able to work at 100% capacity, imagine what our potential would be. Would be almost godly.

reply to post by Scorpitarius


Came here ready to dis you man but I gotta say this has some kind of poetic logic.
Don't know if I believe it or not. Do know its going to cramp my sex life. Sometimes it is love, just not the enduring forever kind of love sometimes its a couple of hours kind of love.

Originally posted by xxshadowfaxx
You are knocking it before you are trying it. Sex for men, is like having an urge to pee. If you don't pee, the urge gets worse and worse. The same is for sex. If you don't have an orgasm, the urge to have one becomes greater and greater until you get a sexual release. If you are unable to get a sexual release, that sexual energy will then be re-directed to your brain, which causes you to have more energy for other things. You will be more motivated, you will feel energized, and you will feel like your potential has increased to a point where anything is possible.

I'm not knocking it per se. I'm saying the mere thought of using a device to control sex is arousing- not anti-arousing. You don't really need a device to make you not orgasm, do you? unless you have spontaneous ejaculation. I am not a man but i am also no virgin and I'm pretty damn sure that if any man I've ever known was to use one of these devices, it would only make him think about sex more, not less.

i'm not arguing that to turn the energy of arousal elsewhere is not beneficial on different levels... not arguing that at all. What i am saying is that i don't see how anyone can say that this would help them suppress arousal. I think it is only giving you MORE arousal that is getting sent back to your brain and making you feel more comfortable and confident while around others.... hence- it's a sex toy. The more you say it isn't a sex toy, the more it IS a sex toy. It's an interesting little game you are playing with yourself and others in public and I still have trouble believing you are a virgin.

If you are in fact a virgin, you are starting your sexual escapades from a very interesting angle.

... and really, let's not argue about this being a sex toy. It will only go in circles and I get that you want to insist that it isn't because if you conceded it was, it probably would take all the fun out of it.

Enjoy your funny little sex game.

i could probably not use a device like that in public without going absolutely nuts and probably wind up masturbating in public restrooms and getting caught. I'm not even going to go there. I already have enough frustrating thoughts and not enough time to facilitate, express and analyze them.