reply to post by Ghost147
Honestly, no, I wasn't planning on responding to your comment. No offense intended, I just hadn't intended on explaining the faults you have in your
opinions about me and what my thread was about. I doubt very much you are making an attempt to actually understand what my post was about, and are,
rather, trying to disprove my theory...which is fine, of course. But it takes up a lot of time to respond to a long message such as yours, especially
when there are so many misunderstandings, and I'm sure you'll just try to catch me in a lie or claim what I say is false. I hope I'm wrong, and do
say so if I am. I am the first to admit my faults and apologize. But since you requested recognition, it's my pleasure.
No offense, I hope...none intended.
First, I'd like to point out that I was not only talking about images and porn, and my thread in no way discussed WHY people are attracted to them. I
discussed the damage done by porn images. It's all fine and dandy if scientists want to blow their grant funds on finding out why porn is so popular
makes no difference to my thread. (Though maybe the first theory should be it's readily free availability.)
I’ve already acknowledged in another comment I made here that I don’t doubt that biological chemicals are released, for millions of reasons; I
state again, what powers the release of those chemicals? Energy. What are the chemicals made of? Atoms/ energy.
I actually didn’t say there was no proof that everything is energy, even Einstein acknowledged this...he also acknowledged the consciousness within.
I claimed no proof to the idea of the thread as a whole, not just the part about energy. The information I provided about energy was more of a pre
requisite understanding in order that ATS-ers would understand why I make such a claim. Loving, is perhaps the only quality about this energy that
hasn't been explained scientifically, as far as I know anyways. And perhaps I’m wrong and it has been. But know this, when a Rasta, like Bob
Marley, for example, says “One Love”, what do you think he really means. One Loving consiousness.
I don’t mean to imply that the energy becomes angry or hateful, the energy becomes negative. Anger and hatred are how the individual reacts to the
negative energy, or energy loss.
From what it appears to be, your simply recognizing features in a person which can sway you to believe that they are a happy, good individual.
One can only look at someones eyes to get at least a mildly accurate glimpse at that person is caring, angry, disgusted, and so on.
No clue what your talking about here. Sorry. Most of my theories and ideas (the ones that are original to me, and not based on someone else’s) come
from my own life experiences. ME using my energy in a negative manner.
Need an example? When I was growing up as a kid, I would wake up almost every night to the sound of my mother getting beaten up by the boyfriend of
the moment. After the beating was done, after I cleaned the blood and she was passed out or at the hospital, I knew of only one way to feel any form
of comfort… I’d release my energy!
THAT is a very bad way to release such a potent energy. I was angry, scared, sad, and more, and all of the energy I released during those times was
released according to my emotions.
Now it has been a struggle to get any kind of control, and I falter. When I falter, I see the negativity growing around me in my life, in one manner
or another. When I get back on track, things change for the better. And I’m not saying I don’t release my energy, either with my wife or alone,
for I do. But when I do, I am mindful of my thoughts and emotions. I am mindful of where I intend that energy to go (usually to earth somehow).
When a couple has sex still angry with each other for a previous argument, THAT increases the negative energy, emits that energy out of anger.
I'm sorry, but I miss the point regarding the picture you linked to. I never judge a book by its cover, I never judge an emotion on its facial
expressions, and I rarely get a chance to stare into someone’s eyes long enough to see their perfect inner self. I fail to see the relevance of this
portion of your comment to my thread.
We ARE in a field of archery man, from so many angles it's a wonder we're not just a race of zombies. But that’s another thread entirely. Sorry to
hear you don’t see that, or believe it, though.
I knew some animals masturbated, though not birds and cats/ dogs. Interesting. Primates I knew about…in fact they do it a lot, don’t they?. I
wonder how many of them are thinking about anger, hatred, jealousy and envy when they release? Most are instinctively procreating, aren’t they?
Are most humans instinctively procreating do you think? Or are most humans doing it for the pleasure, selfishly?
I’m sure masturbation is natural, when I first discovered it, I thought I invented it. I've mentioned many times in other comments here, it is not
masturbation that is evil, or the orgasm itself. It is the negativity, the detachment from love, that I am discussing. Be mindful of your thoughts
and where and how you are directing them when you release the most powerful of your energies.
is it because an evil energy, dark chi, or devil driven spirit has taken hold of all this millions upon millions (perhaps billions) of humans
and wildlife? or is it because all these creatures possess hormones, have specific periods in their lives where a sexual drive is much more potent,
and so on and so on and so on.
This is a HUGE topic, at least if I get into an explanation about it from my perspective. I honestly can’t even think of a way to briefly describe
this. If you are interested, I have written a brief overview. It is about 13 pages I think, so not brief, but it is very brief by way of description.
Please note, the article begins with the words “The man they call Jesus.” Others have been put off by that thinking the words to mean “Jesus”
the way most think of Jesus. Please see past this, for it means “The man they call Jesus.”
There is a link at the bottom of the article, a three hour or so lecture that may just give you some ideas. I think in the least you will enjoy it
PS: Both my fiance and I were porn addicts to the most extreme, in fact we were and are sex addicts. You could not imaging what we have seen
or done sexually, and yet we are both unbelievably loving people. We are the most loyal you may ever meet, and we are the most giving you may ever
meet. We have never cheated on anyone in our past relationships, even when those consist of long distance relationships that separate two beings over
literally thousands of miles and even in another country, all while being sex addicts. Consistently happy, working together, and enjoying our lives
together because we recognize that the other person is much more gratifying than one on a screen.
If you speak true, then yours is not the kind of relationship and attitude I was trying to warn of. And, in fact, a sincere thank you for being one of
the few that can actually respect their mate and not be 100% selfish.
Don’t get me wrong. I get my information equally from science as I do spirituality. That’s become a problem because, as much as I can see a
beautiful unity between the two, neither scientists nor some spiritualists, will listen to me. I am always warned that my ideas are form the devil,
or irrational. I’m sure, even after decades of studying and though, I have not come across whichever proof you are talking about. (Though I’m
still wondering, proof of what? Lack of consciousness in an atom? Atoms being energy?)
I hope I don’t sound demeaning, I don’t intend for this if I do. I’m sure you understand that sometimes, using just words, enunciation is not
heard, and enunciation can change meaning, so just know I am not writing this in anger or feeling as if I am above you. I am under most!
With that, I hope I satisfactorily answered your questions, and I’d like to leave off with a quite….you seem the scientific type : )
every one who is seriously involved in the pursuit of science becomes convinced that a spirit is manifest in the laws of the Universe - a
spirit vastly superior to that of man, and one in the face of which we with our modest powers must feel humble. In this way the pursuit of science
leads to a religious feeling of a special sort, which is indeed quite different from the religiosity of someone more naive.
Peace and One Love