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Originally posted by WeRpeons
reply to post by Caji316
I agree with your statement. It seems like these reality TV series are nothing about respect and manners, and more about fighting, ignorance and spewing vulgar language. What a great role model these rude people and networks are creating for our young people. Didn't MTV start the a$$ showing sagging pants fad? The F' bomb is casually said in public, and the people who say it don't even care if there are little kids around. They need to start teaching manners in kindergarten and 1st grade.
Originally posted by WeRpeons
reply to post by Caji316
I agree with your statement. It seems like these reality TV series are nothing about respect and manners, and more about fighting, ignorance and spewing vulgar language. What a great role model these rude people and networks are creating for our young people. Didn't MTV start the a$$ showing sagging pants fad? The F' bomb is casually said in public, and the people who say it don't even care if there are little kids around. They need to start teaching manners in kindergarten and 1st grade.
Originally posted by Stop-loss!
Originally posted by WeRpeons
reply to post by Caji316
If this is how its going down now then imagine what it will be like 20 years or so from now. Its going to get worse before it gets better.
Originally posted by Kali74
Excellent OP. We can never have enough reminders of when we might be lacking grace. I don't see manners as social programming. I see them as grace. When you are aware of the people around you in public or at home your manners are genuine. When you can see a loved one making dinner and realy see the effort they are putting in so that you may have a nice meal let it warm your heart, let it strengthen your bond and let yourself really appreciate it and when you speak that thank-you that warmth will fill the other person and they will feel truly appreciated. S+F SL.
Originally posted by LostMyPassword
What you're preaching is to be a good person.
Originally posted by WeRpeons
reply to post by LostMyPassword
Really the sagging pants got its start in prisons. The pants that were issued would sometimes be too big for the inmates so some would just let them sag. Eventually the sagging pants in prison was a sign to other inmates that they were open for sex. Than the Hip Hop groups picked up on it and it became a fad. Great fad imitating inmates.
As for saying the F "bomb" in public, it's called being considerate of the people around you. Just because you may feel that language isn't offensive, doesn't mean people around you agree. Little kids repeat what they hear, and the last thing most parents want to hear is their 5 year old dropping the "F" bomb at them, teachers or other people around them.
A perfect example...
I was at my son's high school baseball game and a mother was yelling at her kid through the fence because he missed the ball. She was yelling pick-up the "F"n ball, throw the "F"n ball in, what the "F" are you doing? Mean while the entire stand of parents were staring at her amazed that she had no respect for her son and the people around her. One father with his young son was totally irate and walked up to her and told her if she didn't know how to conduct herself in public, we would all appreciate if she would just leave. All the parents clapped, she was completely embarrassed, apologized and sat in her car for the remainder of the game.
There's a time and place for that kind of language.edit on 21-4-2011 by WeRpeons because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Stop-loss!
Hello everyone. Yesterday I just faced the cold harsh reality of what I have become due to what I have been exposed to from my former job and maybe even further. Last night my younger brother was replacing the hard drive to my first gen PS3 that I haven't used in years due to corrupted files. When he finished fixing it he told me about it and I just said "good". The reply I got afterwards was what made me realize just how insensitive I was. "what thats it, just good!? How about a thank you" then it dawned on me why this was the case. In my former job in the army, thanks and appreciation were rarely shown except in award ceremonies but those were always mandatory. very rarely did any of us receive a thanks or thank you after completing a task or finishing details.