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Originally posted by irsuccubus
if you like skinny chicks you like skinny chicks. But dont try and add heft to your stance with dumbass statements like "most men prefer" because the truth is you have NO idea what most men prefer. You can only go by what maybe you and your friends, family or coworkers may like. the rest is crap probably seen on tv, read in a magazine or absorbed in some other way that brings us right back to the original question of conditioning.edit on 22-4-2011 by irsuccubus because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by othello
reply to post by jessejamesxx
Maybe the reason why you don't see more fat people in non fat people rolls on tv and in movies is because the studios/executives won't take a chance on them.What do you think would happen if all of the fashion designers all of a sudden would start using bigger type models would are preception change on a whole?
Originally posted by kro32
Naw I just don't like to see their fat rolls jiggle around while being intimate. Nothing really more complicated than that.
You can say there's nothing wrong with being fat and there isn't and you can say their beautiful and they are but don't pretend that they are as desirable as thinner women. Perhaps to some they may be but not to the majority of men they aren't.
You can say it's wrong and blame anything you want to on it but it's just a fact of life. Men as a whole do not prefer fat women.
Originally posted by kro32
Well like I said, you can justify it any way you like but if you have someone like kate perry or whoever is hot now walking down the street next to say, pick whatever large woman you want, who do you think most guys are gonna spend more time looking at?
Blame it on conditioning or living in the city or whatever but nevertheless it's true of society today.
Originally posted by AdamsMurmur
When a woman is too thin she loses all her shape... it's a shame. I like a somewhat slender and athletic build on a woman personally (kinda like what you posted), but not too thin because that appears childish and not very womanly. When you look at art, such as statues, paintings, and even comics and those old pin-up girl pictures, women are typically depicted as very shapely and not too skinny. It's only in recent times (past few decades) that people started going crazy over being overly thin. It can be unhealthy and you may develop eating disorders if you become too obsessed. That doesn't mean let yourself go though.
Balance is key.
Originally posted by Wang Tang
Originally posted by Cheesefacedogbone
And now I wonder, how did you manage to get away from following the norm like everyone else? Could you share some of your story.
I feel like I could write a book trying to answer that question.
The truth is I never really did. I have always just been myself. I never saw a legitimate reason to. People will try to change you. Social pressure will try to change you. To me the most interesting people in the world are the ones that dont let any of that BS bother them. I think the key is to realize that were all just human beings and that all the labels dont mean a damn thing in the grand scheme of things.
Originally posted by Scribbles
I work out at the gym daily so I can be healthy/fit. You have no idea how many times I hear the "God, you should eat a burger" comment. I understand they are insecure about their bodies (most of the time) but resorting to petty comments is just immature. The other comment I get the most is "men love women with curves" which confuses me for the most part. The women saying this are confusing being fat with being curvy. Curvy is more of a body type like Marilyn Monroe, Mariah Carey and Salma Hayek. I've learned to not respond to those girls over the years but their comments still get to me sometimes.
edit on 4/21/2011 by Scribbles because: Format messed up.
Originally posted by jstanthrno1
Why do people claim skinny women don't have curves?? They do.. in just the right places!!
Originally posted by Son of Will
Being skinny is a direct result of being healthy. I know that many people would argue otherwise, but it's simply not true. The heavier you are the shorter you live. Point to me any centenarian - anywhere, from any time - who was not skinny. You can't because they don't exist now, and have never existed.
Combine that with the fact that healthy individuals naturally make better mates, and the result is a species that is predominately sexually attracted to healthy, skinny people.
Originally posted by TKDRL
reply to post by LostMyPassword
Flat asses are due to muscle loss, when their bodies start eating itself.... A nice curvy ass is not fat, it is nicely toned muscle....