Originally posted by American-philosopher
Ah finally, back at home in the philosophy zone.
Now is there a difference between lusting and dreaming. Lets first look at what they have in common and then see if we can take it apart. When you
lust you want something. and also when you dream you want something. I think both can be ascribed with having deep passion for something or wanting
that something to come to fruition.
I don't see the connection here, but I'll humor your argument. First of all what type of dreaming are we talking about? Do you mean fantasizing
(day-dreaming), or the dreams you have at night? If you mean the dreams we have at night, then I will have to disagree as I sometimes dream about a
lot of things I don't ever want to see happen.
(now I was just thinking about this now because I have most of what I wanted to say down in notes but I wonder can lust be more of needs base more
then wants like dreams like are??)
I think the difference is that when you lust after something, someone you want that something, someone so much that it consumes you. You also may
become destructive to others around you and most importantly yourself, while trying to obtain your lust.
Now when you dream yes you want that something, someone but you can wait for it and be patient that your dream will come true.
Again, are you talking about lusting vs. day-dreaming? In that case if you're day-dreaming about someone, you're lusting after them. Intensity of your
activity will depend on how lustful of an individual you are. There are some people who can lust without being destructive to themselves or to anyone
else around them, and then there are individuals who's strong and obsessive personality can lead them to do crazy things to attain the object of their
desire. Serial killers and repeat sex offenders for example are individuals who do commit horrible things in order to satisfy their own lust.
It is also interesting if you want to take a religious aspect from it to by saying that hey lust is a sin right? So wait a minute god I can;t want
to have anything? I can;t have a certain attraction to a particualiar item whether or not it is for a virtuious reason or not?
To but these things in a little context. I think that jealously is a form of lust and hope is a form of dreams.
I'm assuming you're talking about Christianity and the seven deadly sins/10 commandments. The seven deadly sins describe human emotions that can
become destructive if taken to the extreme. For an individual who has little to no control over him/herself, these act as terrible temptations which
can cause strife among family and friends. Gluttony can cause you to become obese and therefore unhealthy. Envy can cause you to treat the person
you're envious of unfairly, etc. etc. Anything taken to the extreme will be damaging to you, and potentially to those around you. There's nothing
wrong with wanting things or feeling a little bit jealous as long as you retain control of yourself and make decisions that keep you out of trouble.
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