posted on Apr, 7 2011 @ 11:31 PM
Hello everyone. I don't really know how to start this off so here's a shot.
Addiction is viral in almost every country now, especially here in America. As an addict in recovery myself, I have found that many around me cannot
grasp why I am an addict, and why it is so difficult to say no. Each addict has his own demons whether it be alcohol, drugs, porn, as well as many
others. Different treatment is needed to not necessarily cure the person, but to help them deal with the problems going on around them. Many people
for instance turn to drugs and alcohol to mask hurt and trauma that they have experienced sometime throughout their lives. This could be anything from
sexual abuse, to emotional trauma, to depression.
Why are so many people suffering from addiction now?
Society now has in a way embraced and glamorized addicts. Charlie Sheen for example. This is a major problem that really needs to be fixed. Another
reason which is a major one for me was the availability to do it without anyone knowing. I was able to hide my addiction from my parents and my woman.
Part. Of this was because they had never experienced this from their own family members. My father is a police officer, and my mother and fiance are
both nurses. The fact that I was able to hide it from them crushed and shocked them.
Some signs you may want to look for is mood swings and change in personality. I was the sweetest guy and best friend to everyone I knew. When I came
back from my job...that all changed. I turned to a substance to mask my emotions and therefore I became one angry sob. I hated everyone around me. I
didn't trust anyone anymore and alot of that was because I didn't trust myself. Another sign is distancing and financial issues. I was spending tons
of money on booze and had the mindset that I could compensate for it. Never happened. I broke my bank. I distanced myself from my family and from
society. I didn't want to go out anymore, and I didn't want to spend time doing the things I enjoyed. I had no out. My only hobby was drinking.
My whole point in all of this is to try and give families, wives, husbands, some kind of insight on how we think. With addiction at such a high rate
we have to do something. Here is a wonderful website which gives some facts and input on addiction. If you have any questions or want to know
anything, please ask.
Addiction Info