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Originally posted by lonegurkha
Lasting friendships are not formed with drugs and alcohol.
Originally posted by lonegurkha
reply to post by heyJude
You have a shallow "buddy" Is she gonna have your back when you need it. Or will she betray you when you least expect it?
Originally posted by lonegurkha
reply to post by heyJude
I'm so happy for you. Ask some one with an open relationship how well it works. They usually don't last long.
Originally posted by [davinci]
The problem is, when the party is over so is the friendship usually.
You know the answer already, otherwise you wouldn't have asked (not trying to be mean, just a fact).
I still enjoy a couple of drinks here or there with the people that have been with me for years, but it is rare that my intake exceeds a six pack or (more likely) a bottle of wine. Maybe once or twice a year I'll cut loose but it's under specific circumstances (at a cottage/camp...etc).
There are things you can learn about both yourself and others by joining in, sadly though most of those lessons stem from negative consequences (for you or others.
What matters is what YOU are comfortable with.
ETA...
As the above poster said...stay away from hard drugs, if it doesn't grow naturally the way it is sold leave it alone.
The catch22 here is that wisdom comes from experience and mistakes are the quickest way to gain valuable experience.edit on 7-4-2011 by [davinci] because: (no reason given)