posted on Apr, 3 2011 @ 02:49 PM
reply to post by Jkd Up
Jkd Up there nice part of life is you're in charge of yours. What happens to you is because you allow it to. If you don't mind being with a woman
that has firm opinions of you buying her expensive diamond and gold engagement or wedding jewelry, all is well. Flip side, if you object to the
tradition, the expense or the idea, you know not to pursue a mate that has such a priority.
I do the food shopping. For years I see there are around 24 different magazines by the check-out register devoted to instructing women on how to apply
war paint, dress to seduce, land a guy, rip him apart and put him back together again. Women in America have this mentality shoved in their faces all
their lives. A huge portion of advertisement is based on sex sells, youth sells, sexy youths sell. Marketing and advertising people do not care about
morals and virtues, and what their constant barrage of imagery does to peoples viewpoints. Women have a lot of people competing for their money and
the money they influence. But I figure I someone as dull as me can see this, so can they.
I found happiness by avoiding airheads, demanding shrews, head cases and dullards. Women that would jump at anybody with a big, fat, thick wallet
never saw money dripping from this boy so those whores were never an issue. I can appreciate a person enjoying a nice jewelry gift, especially when
its a better quality piece of value. I've learned many women consider their better jewelry to be a go-to in case of emergency. They can jump ship,
cash in and wash you out of their hair when they land in Miami. I LOL'd hard when I read another posters comment about 'selling his wifes ring if
they need money'! bwahaha! He'll learn!
Jkd Up, if this thread was inspired because, as someone thought in another post, you are getting married, I'll pass along what I've lived. The
bottom line, gifts come and gifts go, but the gifts my wife cherishes and uses the most are the really nice pieces of jewelry I've gifted her over
the many years. Most other things I gave her were clutter that went unused, kid you not. And my wife is not a flashy, demanding woman. She just loves
her Opal birthstone and enjoys my taste in jewelry. Cheers!