reply to post by sugarcookie1
thanks for this sincere expression of compassion.
Originally posted by catwhoknowsplusone
reply to post by sugarcookie1
Hi, sugar,
Yes your dog told you.
And you did the right thing!
Hey, stay with Jesus!
Originally posted by OverMan
reply to post by shroudnews77
I understand but anything can be "used" in the wrong way "abused" yet we should not disallow it based solely upon this fear.
I knew someone who went through the hospice process and I agree it is a better alternative then dying in a hospital or worse still, living in a hospital with no quality of life while the staff pumps us full of narcotics and all manner of nonsense in order to prolong the suffering which is exactly how I see it, prolong suffering as if this were somehow the primary function of modern medicine.
Yet, this person still did not have the choice to die but only to prolong the process of dying and maybe to choose which drug to use to accomplish their slow death.
If a loaded gun was placed in their hands I predict that there would be plenty who would alternatively pull the trigger.
Someone I love dearly is now suffering because the emotions of the family have overidden the concept of quality of life and now she suffers for them, basically, yet most of them do not "FEEL" a thing and are for the most part content that she is still with us regardless of her quality of life.
I think many of the "Laws" concerning this subject stem from the same selfish core albeit, as is the case for modern medicine, the selfish core seems to be made of greed whereas the selfish core of my family is made of??? well??? selfishness, plain and simple. The ability to care for someone yet care little about their suffering.
Seems implausible yet I am unable to convince myself otherwise.
They love her for themselves yet they do not love her for her...
Hope that makes sense.
I have had relatives buried when they requested to be cremated simply because a small yet dominant element in the family could not bear the thought so they ultimately went against the wishes of the deceased......
Yes, a living will would have stopped such selfish nonsense from occurring yet and even though the family is now somewhat divided on the issue, it would have been ripped apart if they would not have gotten their way and were forced to cremate.
So, much of this "family" that people keep referring to, these "dependents" that they are using to justify forcing some of us to stick around alittle longer is BS. BS based in selfishness mainly....
"they always want to play but they never wish to lose".....
"To be or not to be" is a solitary enquiry.