posted on Mar, 29 2011 @ 07:22 PM
reply to post by Skewed
this is exactly how i was raised. my mom taught all three of us (all girls) that if anyone starts "mess" with you and won't stop even after you
try to walk away, you wouldn't get in trouble by her if we "finished it". hell, when i beat up my bully, even the principal was happy for me.
i was talking to mom the other day about this:
- when she had her "big bully fight" in school, she was taken to the hospital and her parents only found out because of the black eye. grandpa put a
steak on her eye and a pat on the back for finishing it.
- when my sisters and i fought, we got a call home, but it was expected for the parents to take care of things accordingly. we got a pat on the back
for finishing it and a reminder that we shouldn't fight if we didn't have to.
now my niece fights her bully and they are asked if they want to press charges on each other. my niece and the bully both get placed in the same
school for "problem girls" and are given probation.