Who sleeps? Like I said, try it in a country where you don't speak the language and you have already gone 3 months or more without.
Originally posted by MarcLawrence
I don't understand how people could honestly sleep with a prostitute. It's not that hard to get laid. Id rather not get seven different types of stds just to bust a nut.
Would legal prostitution better protect prostitutes from violence?
PRO (yes) CON (no)
Melanie Reid, former Columnist and Senior Assistant Editor of the The Herald, wrote in the Dec. 12, 2006 The Herald article, "Why are prostitutes allowed to be easy prey?" that:
"There is no doubt that deadly violence against sex workers is a recurring social pattern. Nor is there any doubt that serial killers know sex workers are afraid to seek protection from police; or that the public believe violence is part of a prostitute's job description. Until prostitution is legalized, these women will continue to toil down on the ocean floor, miles away from the light, in constant fear of predators."
Dec. 12, 2006 - Melanie Reid
Ronald Weitzer, PhD, Professor of Sociology at George Washington University, in the July 1, 2005 journal Violence Against Women article "Rehashing Tired Claims About Prostitution," wrote:
"In fact, there is evidence that some systems of legalization provide a relatively safe working environment. Although no system is risk free, women working in legal brothels and window units in the Netherlands experience very little violence. Workers and managers have instituted elaborate procedures to respond to violent customers quickly and effectively. Similarly, in Nevada’s legal brothels, the risk of violence is very low."
July 1, 2005 - Ronald Weitzer, PhD
Barbara G. Brents, PhD, Associate Professor of Sociology, and Kate Hausbeck, PhD, Senior Associate Dean for Graduate Studies and Academic Affairs, at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, in the Mar. 2005 Journal of Interpersonal Violence article "Violence and Legalized Brothel Prostitution in Nevada," wrote:
"There is strong indication from the interview, document analysis, and ethnographic data presented here that legal brothels generally offer a safer working environment than their illegal counterparts. Regulated brothels offer particular ways of dealing with pragmatic safety issues and minimizing actual violence... Nevada brothels offer specific mechanisms to protect workers via the ways transactions are organized, the ways technology is ordered, the visibility of customers, the bureaucratic relationships among customers, managers, and workers, and the cooperation with police based on the mere fact of their legality. All of these mechanisms work to eliminate systematic violence and to discourage an atmosphere of danger and risk..."
Mar. 2005 - Barbara G. Brents, PhD
Kate Hausbeck, PhD
Melissa Ditmore, PhD, Coordinator of the Global Network of Sex Work Projects, wrote in the Feb. 28, 2007 article "Debating Legalized Prostitution" that was posted on the Washington Post's PostGlobal website:
"Decriminalization would better protect people in the sex industry from violence and abuse.
...Police cannot and do not simultaneously seek to arrest prostitutes and protect them from violence. Currently, under New York Criminal Procedure Law, sex workers who have been victims of sex offenses, including assault and rape, face greater obstacles than other victims. Indeed, women describe being told, 'What did you expect?' by police officers who refused to investigate acts of violence perpetrated against women whom they knew engaged in prostitution. The consequences of such attitudes are tragic: Gary Ridgway said that he killed prostitutes because he knew he would not be held accountable. The tragedy is that he was right – he confessed to the murders of 48 women, committed over nearly twenty years. That is truly criminal."
Feb. 28, 2007 - Melissa Ditmore, PhD
Mary Sullivan, PhD, author, wrote the 2005 report "What Happens When Prostitution Becomes Work?" which stated:
"No other workplace has to cover the range of health and safety issues that ensue from this sexual and economic exchange. Together with STIs [Sexually Transmitted Infections], verbal abuse, battering, sexual harassment and violence, rape and unwanted pregnancies are recognised occupational health and safety risks within the prostitution industry. This does not change because prostitution is legalised."
2005 - Mary Sullivan, PhD
Melissa Farley, PhD, Founding Director of the Prostitution Research and Education, in the Oct. 2004 Psychiatric Times article "Prostitution Is Sexual Violence," wrote:
"Regardless of prostitution's status (legal, illegal or decriminalized) or its physical location (strip club, massage parlor, street, escort/home/hotel), prostitution is extremely dangerous for women. Homicide is a frequent cause of death.... It is a cruel lie to suggest that decriminalization or legalization will protect anyone in prostitution. It is not possible to protect someone whose source of income exposes them to the likelihood of being raped on average once a week.
It is a cruel lie to suggest that decriminalization or legalization will protect anyone in prostitution. It is not possible to protect someone whose source of income exposes them to the likelihood of being raped on average once a week."
Oct. 2004 - Melissa Farley, PhD
Anastasia Volkonsky, JD, Founder and former Project Director of Prevention, Referral, Outreach, Mentoring, and Intervention to End Sexual Exploitation (PROMISE), in the Feb. 27, 1995 Insight on the News article "Legalization the 'Profession' Would Sanction the Abuse," wrote:
"Behind the facade of a regulated industry, brothel prostitutes in Nevada are captive in conditions analogous to slavery. Women often are procured for the brothels from other areas by pimps who dump them at the house in order to collect the referral fee. Women report working in shifts commonly as long as 12 hours, even when ill, menstruating or pregnant, with no right to refuse a customer who has requested them or to refuse the sexual act for which he has paid.... And, contrary to the common claim that the brothel will protect women from the dangerous, crazy clients on the streets, rapes and assaults by customers are covered up by the management."
Feb. 27, 1995 - Anastasia Volkonsky, JD
Standing Against Global Exploitation (SAGE) posted on its website "Frequently Asked Questions about SAGE and CSE" (accessed Mar. 9, 2007), which stated:
"...[L]egalization actually makes it more difficult to prosecute rapists, perpetrators, and traffickers. Because the sex industries are more legitimized under legalization, there is no basic presumption that buying or selling someone else’s body is a crime — and therefore the burden on victims of violence to prove that they are experiencing harm or exploitation is increased. When sexual exploitation is legalized, sexual abusers can use excuses like, 'she’s just a ho who wanted more money' to discredit anyone in the sex industries who tries to get legal support."
Mar. 9, 2007 - Standing Against Global Exploitation (SAGE)
Originally posted by DaddyBare
I beg to disagree
To many young girls are forced into prostitution...
far to often I have seen or heard stories children being forced into that life style...
Nope you just asking to for trouble and compounding to their exploitation...
the real answer laying in better education... give these kids the chance they deserve... rather than fall back on some lame old excuse...
IMO, women have much more in common with each other than there are differences between them.
Originally posted by Darkphoenix77
reply to post by Liberterius
Wow, harboring a little anger and resentment to women there? Do not think that can be healthy.....all women are different catagorizing them all as whores is a bit much don't you think?
Originally posted by sonofliberty1776
reply to post by ThirdEyeofHorus
On my first visit to Turkey, I went to a "prison" where women were sent to "work off" their husband's debts. Don't go on about the moral issues with that, I was 18 and didn't think about such things and would not have cared back then anyway. My point is that such things don't just happen in India.