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Originally posted by Jakko
Originally posted by badkitty
I'm not getting where you're coming from with this. How can we "find out wether their desire for woman is a choice/lifestyle or something they're born with" other than through scientific/medical study? How can the average hetro know what goes on in the mind, heart and body of the average homo?
How? I explained how.
There is no difference between being gay or straight, besides that it's the other way around. Do I choose to get turned on by other woman? No, I just do.
It does not take any study to understand it's the exact same way for gay people.
Originally posted by Freenrgy2
The last time I checked the bible it states that God created man in His own image. Not sheep. You keep bringing up the gay sheep thing. To say that God created some of us to be born gay would prove that God image is would be both homosexual and heterosexual.
Originally posted by Istvan
Female gay relationships are somehow accepted over the world, and they don't hold much attention. But male gay relationships are more annoying, and they usually want to make show of that. I have seen males licking each other many times over the street, and it was really disgusting to me, my guts almost turned out by seeing it. Somehow, as I feel being a healthy person, if I see things like this in real, it makes me very sick. Feels the same, if someone is using the sidewalk as toilet in front of me, while I am eating a hamburger. Anyone has an idea how that feels? Well, this is why I just cannot understand gay relationships. On the other hand, females are seem to be cute and lovely while being with each other, and people usually are capable of ignoring that, and a hetero relationship also fits in that. But I cannot imagine a normal minded woman, who has the guts to go in bed with a male, who has male partners. I may be wrong, though...
Originally posted by taibunsuu
. . . The idea of having to deal with a partner who has a penis on a subconscious level is devastating to heterosexuals who are not 100% sure whether they are interested or not, ie secure in their sexuality.
Originally posted by dr_strangecraft
Originally posted by taibunsuu
. . . The idea of having to deal with a partner who has a penis on a subconscious level is devastating to heterosexuals who are not 100% sure whether they are interested or not, ie secure in their sexuality.
I'm having trouble understanding you. Do you mean the following?
1. That all heterosexuals are unsure of their sexuality?
2. That those heterosexuals who are unsure of themselves cannot stand the sight of a penis?
3. That the sight of something you might to have sex with is repugnant?
As far as number 1 goes, I think most hetero women are not 'devastated' by the presence of a penis.
If you are arguing #2, Those males I have met who are unsure of themselves (wrestling with homo/bi issues) seem to be fascinated by pictures of couples having sex. They seemed as obsessed with the act as most straight men are with the female body. For instance, most 'softcore porn' doesn't portray a couple posed in a steamy position. It just shows a naked and aroused female. Most straight men in our culture are put off by the presence, even in the photo, of a possible competitor.
Consider #3. Personally, given men's enthusiastic responses to lesbian activity (at least in their dreams) I think this would be hard to argue. Many women, hetero or not, do not really care for the sight of a naked male. Of course the stereotype is that women see sex as the prelude to a relationship, whereas men see any relationship as a prelude to sex.
Originally posted by Istvan
Female gay relationships are somehow accepted over the world, and they don't hold much attention. But male gay relationships are more annoying, and they usually want to make show of that. I have seen males licking each other many times over the street, and it was really disgusting to me, my guts almost turned out by seeing it. Somehow, as I feel being a healthy person, if I see things like this in real, it makes me very sick. Feels the same, if someone is using the sidewalk as toilet in front of me, while I am eating a hamburger. Anyone has an idea how that feels? Well, this is why I just cannot understand gay relationships. On the other hand, females are seem to be cute and lovely while being with each other, and people usually are capable of ignoring that, and a hetero relationship also fits in that. But I cannot imagine a normal minded woman, who has the guts to go in bed with a male, who has male partners. I may be wrong, though...
Originally posted by rai76
gay people [...] have more succes with jobs and have more money to spend. Hetero's maybe have that all less and are just married, kids, etc and have a standard life.
Originally posted by drbil
Being Gay is as much a choice as being Black, left handed or short.
Originally posted by Jonna
Originally posted by drbil
Being Gay is as much a choice as being Black, left handed or short.
And what proof or logic led you to this conclusion? What about straight men that become gay in prison? The human sex drive is what is natural. The choice of mate is a perceptional preference.
Originally posted by LadyV
if your so religious that you use that excuse, than you should be religious enough to not judge others and leave that to your all loving god......the whole thing is silly....it's just no one else's business as long it's between consenting adults, why should anyone care?